Uncomfortable intercourse? (tmi)

[Lilly12]

So I havent been in the mood lately, up untill yesterday so me and my husband tried to have sex, but it was really uncomfortable for me.
He felt it too, like my vagina was really tight..

Is this "normal" ?
I mean... I think it also has something to do with that I was tense because I'm scared he'll poke my cervix or something and then get spotting/bleeding ..( i havent had spotting / bleeding, at all yet).

So, what is a comfortable position for you girls?
Him on top wasn't working out, so I got on top it was a little better but it felt so strange, like Im way more sensitive down there and its just weird LOL.

 

[KandyKinz]

I actually have been spotting so I've been avoiding positions that allow really deep penetration. I find lying on our sides best for this.

There's a book called "hot mamas" by Lou Paget that's about sex in pregnancy and it gives lots of tips on how to maneuver around pregnancy discomforts during the different trimesters including sensitive cervixes, etc.

 

[juhesihcaaa]

I really just haven't been in the mood lately but when we have I've found that I'm tighter than usual and things do tend to be a tad bit sore afterwards.

 

[MilosMommy7]

i posted about this a few days ago. for me it was a sharp pain if he went too far in. the best position for us was me on bottom :/

 

[Babybear1985]

we havent done the deed lol since we found out i was pregnant, we both feel a little wierd about it even though we had no problem going overboard when trying to conceive....is it okay to have sex....obviously it is....but why am i so uptight and nervous about it...? xx

 

[MilosMommy7]

we havent done the deed lol since we found out i was pregnant, we both feel a little wierd about it even though we had no problem going overboard when trying to conceive....is it okay to have sex....obviously it is....but why am i so uptight and nervous about it...? xx

because we think their penis is gonna poke the baby and cause bleeding thats what i usually think. lol

 

[Babybear1985]

we havent done the deed lol since we found out i was pregnant, we both feel a little wierd about it even though we had no problem going overboard when trying to conceive....is it okay to have sex....obviously it is....but why am i so uptight and nervous about it...? xx

because we think their penis is gonna poke the baby and cause bleeding thats what i usually think. lol

lol yeah i guess....its also the thought of their penis going anywhere near my baby haha, poor thing i wouldnt want that shoved in my face alt time lol....

 

[chittychis]

Lol! I am loving this thread, I'm feeling the same too, we did try Durex play lube (sorry if TMI) which definitely helped with the tight and sore after feeling. I find me on top best but to be honest I'm not really in the mood, it just feels wrong putting that near the baby lol! I'm going to try and find a copy of the "Hot Mama's" book! xx

 

[Tigerlass]

me and my OH have got jiggy a few times, but its usually only on my terms LOL! Ive gone off it lately though, Just never feel like it so I just leave him with the adult channel while I go to bed haha! saves me the hassle then doesn't it

But anyway, I didnt find it too uncomfortable I just told him to make sure he was careful and not to get TOO excited, Him on top was fine with me!

 

[Lamsbump]

i have to say i have a bigger horn for my husband than usual, we would be at it like teenagers again if i had my way lol we always had great sex before but now its even better, ive not found it sore but i have been lots dry than normal.

I find it comfortable when im on my back with him on his side facing me with my legs over him.

Im guessing im just odd then.

 

[babybear75]

we havent done the deed lol since we found out i was pregnant, we both feel a little wierd about it even though we had no problem going overboard when trying to conceive....is it okay to have sex....obviously it is....but why am i so uptight and nervous about it...? xx

same here! must be the name! x