How did your OHs react?
Mine is ok-ish but also not when I push him on it. He is fine with what I want to do, but is worried about the risks, and the fact that if anything bad happened, I would never forgive myself :/
Hes worried about the cord getting caught, resuscitation, things going wrong. We live 10 mins from the hospital and in an ambulance, even less. In fact, there is another maternity unit right at the bottom of our road, so we could go there if needed in about 3 minutes.
He won't rely on websites that I've shown him or stories from here, as he says its anecdotal and won't be the full story. But I can't provide him with anything more concrete than that :/ The homebirth.org.uk isn't as up to date as he'd like and didn't reassure him as it did me. His unsure-ness is making me unsure. If the MW comes to the house, he will be here though so he can ask questions then..
Mine is ok-ish but also not when I push him on it. He is fine with what I want to do, but is worried about the risks, and the fact that if anything bad happened, I would never forgive myself :/
Hes worried about the cord getting caught, resuscitation, things going wrong. We live 10 mins from the hospital and in an ambulance, even less. In fact, there is another maternity unit right at the bottom of our road, so we could go there if needed in about 3 minutes.
He won't rely on websites that I've shown him or stories from here, as he says its anecdotal and won't be the full story. But I can't provide him with anything more concrete than that :/ The homebirth.org.uk isn't as up to date as he'd like and didn't reassure him as it did me. His unsure-ness is making me unsure. If the MW comes to the house, he will be here though so he can ask questions then..