Hi, im aged 18, and almost 18 weeks pregnant but i dont know if i should keep the baby. I havnt told my parents i really dont want them to find out. I live at university and studying fulltime.
I havnt told any friends yet, but recently two of them have passed comment asking me if im pregnant or put any weight on, ive even had to buy new bra's ive gone from 34b to almost 34d!
I havnt told anyone because im scared of what they'd say about who i slept with. It was near christmas time out clubbing with friends, i hadnt had any sex for three months and i wanted some fun so before we went out i made sure i took a condom with me. There was this guy who was flirting with me, we went for a walk outside found a quiet place, and just as he was about to do 'it' i said let me put the condom on but he didnt want it i said im not on the pill he said he would pull out. I didnt get the morning after pill because... long story, stupid i know, i just thought because we were only doing it for probably about 5 minutes then theres nothing to worry about as he pulled out. I meen ive had sex lots with an ex boyfriend where he pulled out and i never got pregnant.
All i know about him he's name is Tom, said he was 29 but he looked like 25, and lives like 50 miles away. We really liked each other he did ask for my phone number but he hasnt yet called.
If i keep the baby he/she will just have a mum but no dad, which seems sort of cruel, same if i have an abortion. Im not sure if i could put it for adoption, every day that goes by im starting to realise more how special this is for me.
My heart really wants to keep the baby, but my head says no. What will i tell people when they ask where is the father, i cant tell them the truth id be branded a slut etc which im really not! Just my hormones was driving me crazy at the time.
If i keep the baby, what help would i get from benefits? Ive heard you can get a small house and get a comfortable amount of money from benefits.
I havnt told any friends yet, but recently two of them have passed comment asking me if im pregnant or put any weight on, ive even had to buy new bra's ive gone from 34b to almost 34d!
I havnt told anyone because im scared of what they'd say about who i slept with. It was near christmas time out clubbing with friends, i hadnt had any sex for three months and i wanted some fun so before we went out i made sure i took a condom with me. There was this guy who was flirting with me, we went for a walk outside found a quiet place, and just as he was about to do 'it' i said let me put the condom on but he didnt want it i said im not on the pill he said he would pull out. I didnt get the morning after pill because... long story, stupid i know, i just thought because we were only doing it for probably about 5 minutes then theres nothing to worry about as he pulled out. I meen ive had sex lots with an ex boyfriend where he pulled out and i never got pregnant.
All i know about him he's name is Tom, said he was 29 but he looked like 25, and lives like 50 miles away. We really liked each other he did ask for my phone number but he hasnt yet called.
If i keep the baby he/she will just have a mum but no dad, which seems sort of cruel, same if i have an abortion. Im not sure if i could put it for adoption, every day that goes by im starting to realise more how special this is for me.
My heart really wants to keep the baby, but my head says no. What will i tell people when they ask where is the father, i cant tell them the truth id be branded a slut etc which im really not! Just my hormones was driving me crazy at the time.
If i keep the baby, what help would i get from benefits? Ive heard you can get a small house and get a comfortable amount of money from benefits.
