Update on my life! :)

[kaylamariee]

So, I pretty much just introduced myself a few weeks ago.
Most of you know, I'm kayla, 19 and 11 weeks pregnant with my first !
Anyway, so OH and I are getting married before baby arrives..
We obviously don't have much money for a wedding and we would rather save for our baby so we are getting married infront of the justice of the peace with just a few people !
We thought that later on down the road when we have more money we can have a small ceremony
But he wanted to get me a ring I liked, so we picked one out a few weeks ago and he got it for me today !
It takes a few weeks to come in but I'm SOO excited
I'm getting him a ring also, but I wanted to pay for it cause I have a job so I'm buying his in a month or two.
I love this man with all my heart
People judge cause he's older than me? I'm 19 gonna be 20 soon and he's 27, but I really could care less about others opinions.
We get along great, hardly fight.
And I'm so excited because I get my 12 week scan this thursday.
Ill be sure to post pictures !
But whenever I go to the docs I'm reassured everythings fine because he let's us hear the heartbeat.
I'm just so happy I have a mature, supportive man in my life.
I hope your all doing well thanks for all your support x

 

[Kathleen1994]

congratulations ! i am 18 weeks on tuesday with my first and being pregnant you need the support from your man..

 

[magic93]

Congrats girl soo happy for you! I can relate me and my man were planning to get married before babys born but I think itll problly happen after now as some unexpected obstacles have come our way. And im also 19 and hes 27. People r always guna judge about something who cares what they have to say. Anyways best of luck hun!

 

[ClairAye]

Aw congrats! I was 16 (but 17 in two months) when I got with my OH and he was 22, I'm now 18 and he's 23 so there is about 5 and a half years between us, as long as you're happy
Have fun at your 12 week scan! It's great! Our LO was literally bouncing up and down etc, it's amazing how much of a person they look like!

 

[miabeth]

Just wanted to jump in and say that I'm 18 & OH is 27. Basically the ONLY problems I have that arise from our age difference is other's opinions. 98% Of the time, I could care less, but sometimes something will make me fell a TAD bit bad. It is all worth it though, because I couldn't even imagine a better guy for me than him!

 

[lil lovey]

Oh congrads..I'm so happy for yal

 

[cluckerduckie]

Congratulations!

 

[kaylamariee]

Thank you all !
I hop you are all doing well.
I know its nice to have support from your man, but I also know a lot of single moms that are amazing mothers and have great support in other places !
I'm suprised how smooth this pregnancy is going
I haven't really had any morning sickness, just feel a little sick right when I wake up or if I'm hungry.
Just hot flashes at night and that's pretty much it!
I was worried at first but I go to the doctors a lot and get to hear the hb and it reassures me everythings fine !
I can't wait till my 12 week scan thurs
Thank you all girlies x

 

[x__amour]

Congrats!

 

[bsd]

That's so exciting everything sounds so positive and uplifting!!
And love has no age! My sister got pregnant when she was 16, and her OH was 29.. yeah my mother was not happy with the 13 year gap but they are still together 9 years later and they have another child! He's the greatest dad I've seen! You two are meant to be, age is just a number!
I'm a year and a half older than my OH I wonder if I'm the only one who is...

 

[MummyMana]

My partner is 4 years older than me which I like however he looks older than he is and I look younger, someone in the pub even thought I was his daughter

 

[kaylamariee]

Lol ! You were probaly like wtf.. No
I look younger to, people say I look 16 or 17 even though I'm 19 almost 20 !
Pisses me off sometimes >_>

 

[MummyMana]

Haha when me and him first got together all his friends asked him if I was legal I know I look young but surely I don't look 15 xD

 

[miabeth]

Speaking of age..

The awkward moment when my boyfriend is older than Hugh Hefner's fiance.

hahaha.

 

[kaylamariee]

How old is your boyfriend mia?
I can't believe how many girls have a man with the same age difference.
I've just always dated older guys (not like 30's or anything) because I find them to be a lot more mature.

 

[jozylynn896]

I wish I had a 12 week
I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was like 3 months
But congrats!
Do you want a boy or a girl?

 

[kaylamariee]

Thank you joz
Are you still pregnant or did you have LO?
When was your first scan?
And of course I want a little girl and OH wants a boy.
But either way, as long as their healthy

 

[miabeth]

How old is your boyfriend mia?
I can't believe how many girls have a man with the same age difference.
I've just always dated older guys (not like 30's or anything) because I find them to be a lot more mature.

He's 27- almost exactly nine years older than me.