Urrrrm Silly question

[Peach]

But where do we start

 

[Mynxie]

you and your OH need to talk about what you both want.

That's the very first thing hun.

Then you need to talk about who you want there and their roles.

Then you need to decide when and where and what you're going to wear. (Just decide what kind of style you want first before you get bogged down, like do yuou want a great big fancy thing or something more casual?)

Then talk about things like photographers, invitations, flowers etc etc etc.

 

[Peach]

Thank you

We know where and when and who, etc its just sooo confusing maybe a bit soon to start planning

 

[PnutProtector]

decide on a date (have a few back up dates in mind too)
Decide on a theme or overall vibe.
Find a ceremony site and reception site (if you can get a place that will do both it cuts down on cost)

that's the first things you guys need to do.

but www.theknot.com is a great help
and you can get a free wedding website at www.mywedding.com