The eye ointment here is a pet peeve of mine, because it's a blanket thing they do to every baby and instead of having to 'consent' to it, you have to educate yourself and then sign a waiver declining it.
I'm sorry. . .ummm. . .my baby, ANY treatments should be done only when I consent, not simply because they are routine!
Every mama I know here in the U.S. didn't blink an eye when it came to the ointment. They take the baby, clean it, put in the ointment. . .nobody thinks anything of it. Some don't even know they do it until they get their baby back with goop all over their face.
We're declining it via waiver. Our MW's won't do it without consent, thank goodness, and if *God forbid* we end up in the hospital for some reason my husband will be watching the nurses like a hawk that they don't do it.
I've been tested, I don't have STD's, I refuse to have them 'blanket' treat our baby.
I'm sorry, but if it's an STD such as a bacterial infection/viral infection/parasite, then it will show up on a test. It's called getting a Complete Blood Count and or a pap.
I'm a nursing student, so I know this for a fact. Also where I live they do test more than just during the first trimester just to make sure things are okay and if they need to address any issues before the baby is due to be born.
If you have an STD/STI they will treat you for it because if you go without treatment it will kill your baby and will kill you. That is also a fact.
I knew a girl who decided not to go to the doctor when she was pregnant. She had chlamydiae. She got it from her baby's father. She had to terminate her pregnancy because she was 5 months and bleeding because her baby had died due to the infection. She will never have children because it destroyed her reproductive organs.
You're a mother and you do what you feel is the best choice for your child.
But during pregnancy, here in the US, we test more than just once, for infections and such. Every doctor and place is different, but I thought testing during pregnancy is more straight across the board, however I guess I was wrong.
I had a friend who has a baby and she was single when she got pregnant. She chose to sleep around and got the same STD/STI 3 times during her pregnancy and she has a perfectly healthy little girl...
What are the cons to having the ointment put.. my gut says to refuse it as I am also going to be refusing the hep vaccine given at birth but I want to have something to back it up with if the nurses are pressuring me
Thanks!