vasectomy reversal advice?

[meisha]

well we are on our 2nd day fast of bd running up to the SA on Tuesday at 3pm. I'm starting to get more and more nervous and looking up chances of BF's VR failing.
I have found that it is possible for blockages to occur some months and years after the Op. These can be caused by BD too soon. I cant remember how long we were told to sustain from BD after the op but I do know we didnt stick to it. Maybe about 2 weeks after rather than 4! I got pg soon afterwards but who's to say than whilst I was recoverig from my molar that his blockage didnt occur?
Am so so so so worried. BF says that if he is a jaffa then thas it. Why should we give up so easily? He says he isnt sure what he wants to do if this is the case. Says what we need for treatment may be too long to wait for and we cant afford private.
Any advise to help me chill? am stressing out so much, tired, spotty skin, black bags under my eyes this aint good for ttc is it.
IF he is a jaffa do you think the NHS will do another VR on him? he paid for it to be reversed himself so would he have to again? its 2.5k! or would we go onto some other form of treatment that the NHS can give?
How long did you wait for it if your fellas had probs?

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[Laura1984]

Hi Hun,
My OH had his VR in July last year and we didn't for 6 weeks
xx

 

[meisha]

oh no, maybe my worst fears are right then

 

[Laura1984]

Not necessarily hun!!! dont think like that BE POSITIVE!!! we went for OH SA and they were all swimming in circles or backwards with bent tails!!! but we still managed just fine
I thought you weren't supposed to because of the tubes rupturing and that obviously didn't happen if you managed to get pregnant? I would try not to get too worked up hun - i know that is so much easier said than done but worring and getting stressed wont change anything so try to relax!
I wish you all the luck in the world for tuesday i know exactly how you are feeling let me know how u get on xxxx

 

[meisha]

i cant remember how long we were told to not have bd for after the op but bf reminding me that it was 14 days. which is not much really is it? apparently i attacked him after 7 but he seemed ok. will have to wait and see eh.

 

[Laura1984]

how did it go hun?

 

[meisha]

it was all surreal! compared to when he had to produce a sample following the op. the ward at the ozi was specifically for this sort od thing and he was in and out like a flash lol. gotta wait three weeks now.
x

 

[Laura1984]

fingers crossed xxxxxx