vbac after a vaginal and c section????

[VanKeuren2]

Hi everyone. I'm a 26 yr old mother of two boys. my husband and i are trying for baby number 3. I had a vaginal with my first and a emergency c section with my second. i had a awful recovery after the vaginal birth and a even worse recovery after my second son with the c section. After the vaginal i got the worst uti ever and i still get pains where i ripped(tmi). After the csection my incision kept reopening and everytime i cough or sneeze it hurts really bad on thee inside (like the deeper incisions) I'm debating a vbac next time around have thoughts or experiences? Good or bad appreciated!!! Thanks everyone

 

[VanKeuren2]

I forgot to mention i really wanted my husband to experience both ways of birth because my 3year old is from a previous relationship. so he hasn't witnessed or felt the amazing feeling of vaginal birth and i feel like its such a difference in the feelings during the birth
Compared to feeling ill and foggy from meds in scection....