tinymumma
Mummy to a rainbow boy
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We have just found out we are having a little girl and we are both beyond excited. My husband chose our sons first and middle name, which at first I didn't like but it grew on me and even before he was born, I just knew it was his name.
I've had a girl name picked since I was about 10 (as you do, lol) and ever since we found out I was pregnant, I just knew she was a girlie (I knew my little man was a boy too). Hubs has always said he liked the girl name but now we know she is a girl, he all of a sudden hates it?! 😠 None of the family like it either (except for my nanas, since its "old fashioned") but then again they didn't like our son's name either.
It's a very out there and different name, just like our son's. It's not like we could call her Sarah or something after our son having such a unique name...
I'm so set on this name and have two different middle names I love and am thinking of letting hubby choose out of those two for the middle name but I don't want to budge on the first name.
Am I wrong for this? I've loved this name for ever and I'm the one giving birth to her, plus having no say in our son's name, I feel that I shouldn't have to change my mind. Everyone keeps saying but what nickname would we give her, its weird etc but heck, we don't even call our son his nickname half of the time (we all call him Peapod or Mr. Pea). Should I just stand my ground and risk the fact that hubby could resent me ( over thinking here) or do I give in and compromise? I really don't want to 😭
I've had a girl name picked since I was about 10 (as you do, lol) and ever since we found out I was pregnant, I just knew she was a girlie (I knew my little man was a boy too). Hubs has always said he liked the girl name but now we know she is a girl, he all of a sudden hates it?! 😠 None of the family like it either (except for my nanas, since its "old fashioned") but then again they didn't like our son's name either.
It's a very out there and different name, just like our son's. It's not like we could call her Sarah or something after our son having such a unique name...
I'm so set on this name and have two different middle names I love and am thinking of letting hubby choose out of those two for the middle name but I don't want to budge on the first name.
Am I wrong for this? I've loved this name for ever and I'm the one giving birth to her, plus having no say in our son's name, I feel that I shouldn't have to change my mind. Everyone keeps saying but what nickname would we give her, its weird etc but heck, we don't even call our son his nickname half of the time (we all call him Peapod or Mr. Pea). Should I just stand my ground and risk the fact that hubby could resent me ( over thinking here) or do I give in and compromise? I really don't want to 😭