Venue Dileamas - not sure which one to go for?

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So we thought we were pretty sure on which venue we were going for & had provisionally booked (although lost that date now i think) as deposit was due & we have a tax bill (un-expected) at the end of this month.

The venue that we were going for, was a big manor house, on big grounds, loads of lawn etc. The manor house was where the ceromony would take place so we would be in it all of 20 mins

Then you go somewhere else for the reception/wedding breakfast, nice enough room was thinking of getting it made to look like a marquee (as a marquee is what i wanted).

The manor house then is pretty much not seen unless you go for a wander outside.. This venue has 1 wedding a day & 68 rooms on site (its a de-vere place)

Another venue that was suggested to us again is nice, it is more intamate (no where near as grand on on a large scale as the manor house) very pleasent though although only has 26 rooms & also the cars are right in the ground of the hotel (the downside). The hotel is lovely inside. They will bend over backwards there to give you what you want...

Where the reception/wedding breakfast will be held is already done out like a marquee inside.

Price wise they are going to be on par i think...

It is the room & the car parking situation that is putting me off.. The manor house makes more sense as there are rooms literally on site where alot of people can stay where as with this other one, alot of people who chose to stay are going to have to get taxi's to other hotels. 80% of our guests are travelling to us & alot id imagine will stay up...

Im not to sure what hotels/B&Bs are around near this hotel.. But having to get taxis etc is making me think it could be a mare.

I feel in abit of a nightmare situation of which one to go for. 1 you get the wow factor when you pull up the other one you dont, although it is still nice.
 
ummm, if it was me. I'd go for the little one. I know the manor is what you wanted- but the little one you said would bend over backwards. If that is so, its plausable you could get your quote down lower and have more money to do things that will give your special day and extra boost and make up for not having the manor. xx
 
I would go for the manor house which has the space and accommodation for your guests, especially if it has the wow factor. Your guests will be at the manor house well before the ceremony, and you will have lots of photos to be taken outside etc so having a stunning venue on the outside does have its advantages x
 
ye good thinking boofle. I dunno- I suppose its a once in a life time thing, dont worry about what your guests have to do- live your dream and be a princess <3 xx
 
Well we booked the venue yesterday & have also changed the date to 9th June 2012 :)

We went for the 2nd venue, after hearing a few things about our original choice. My mum also went to a wedding at our first choice yesterday & said it was not that good there, it was a effort for the staff to do things, drinks were really expensive & the place just lacked atmosphere
 

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