Waiting for AF after M/C, anyone else? OCBM

[Nat0609]

 

[Aleeah]

YAY!!!!!!!

Looks like you're well and truly up the duff Mrs!!

xx

 

[Nat0609]

Thanks huni

I'm still incredibly cautious but for the time being I'm pregnant again xx

 

[Nina83]

Cramping...

 

[bluestars]

I actually had this strong weird feeling yesterday when I was walking home from work. My instincts have been working overtime since I first conceived, and I've been pretty much right about them most times.
I POAS when I got home, 9dpo, still very early, but this is what I got. My urine wasn't that concentrated, but I'm not looking for excuses or whatever. I saw the color and still felt the need to try.
I'm not sure if it is the reflection of the control line, or what. There is red dye very visible on the top ridge of the strip, where the second line should be. As time goes by the second line is blurry, but more visible. Which could mean evap.
I'm very lightly spotting, light pink, no more than during wipes pretty much. I'm cramping on my right side, during AF I always cramp on my left, and when I was pregnant on my right.
I have no clue as to what's going on, I'm pretty much ready for anything.
Is it strange the only thing I'm worried right now is my doctors reaction, if this is a positive, he told us to try and wait!
Anyways, 9dpo- implantation spotting is possible. I'm only 23 days after the miscarriage, but previously got AF 24 days after D&C.
I know hormones can mess things up- maybe that's why my chart is crazy? or maybe that's why I'm spotting. I'm also thinking, if Nat got a +HPT with a HCG of 3, maybe my levels have gone under 5, but still not 0- and it's picking up old HCG? But the test I did the other day, before I took blood was stark white.
Time will tell I guess! (sorry for rambling on!)
(Oh, and BTW, according to countdown to pregnancy, 31 think it's a positive, 5 think negative...)

Dont apologise at all. It was an instinctive feeling I felt with my boys and I was right! I see somthing there! Fingers crossed! I was also worrying about the doctors reaction haha its like being a small child and telling your parents again! But they are there to help and support. Just say oops ! Hehe must have slipped haha!! Xxx

 

[bluestars]

Yes Nat my hopes are high for you!!! Xxx

 

[Nina83]

Dont apologise at all. It was an instinctive feeling I felt with my boys and I was right! I see somthing there! Fingers crossed! I was also worrying about the doctors reaction haha its like being a small child and telling your parents again! But they are there to help and support. Just say oops ! Hehe must have slipped haha!! Xxx

I can see it, he'll be typing away writing something on the computer and kind of mumble without even looking at us "Didn't I tell you to wait?" He's very predictable!

 

[Nat0609]

Dont apologise at all. It was an instinctive feeling I felt with my boys and I was right! I see somthing there! Fingers crossed! I was also worrying about the doctors reaction haha its like being a small child and telling your parents again! But they are there to help and support. Just say oops ! Hehe must have slipped haha!! Xxx

I can see it, he'll be typing away writing something on the computer and kind of mumble without even looking at us "Didn't I tell you to wait?" He's very predictable!

I agree with Blue say "he slipped, fell and landed erm well you are the doctor work it out"

xx

 

[Nina83]

I think right now we're safe from the doctor, either I'm cramping or bleeding more than "spotting". They DON'T come together! It's still light pink though. Not red yet.
I guess this calls for a HPT this evening. I'm almost sure it was an evap yesterday, or leftover HCG.

 

[Nat0609]

Keep us posted Nina xx

 

[crysshae]

Lindsay - I wasn't even thinking about them at the time. I had to go into my closet for something and noticed the FRER box with empty test wrappers that I had hidden on the shelf so no one would see it while I was testing...and it just hit me to throw them away. So I grabbed the box and all the tests and did it right then before I chickened out.

Nat - Woohoo! I think you can definitely get excited.

Nina - Good luck. I hope you figure out what is going on soon.

Aleeah - Definitely stop temping. It made me a nervous wreck with my youngest, and I had to make myself stop.

 

[bluestars]

Today opk. Xxx

 

[bluestars]

Top Saturday
Middle last night
Bottom fmu

Definate progression!!

Hello Ladies,

How are you all today?

Blue - I know it sounds like a cliche and I know it's the hardest thing ever to do but just try and relax and go with the flow. Remember I wasn't getting AF after my m/c and my doc told me to relax, hence the shopping trip! Really praying you get a BFP xx

Lindsay - So pleased you got a second positive OPK, remember I got 2 days worth in a row too and we only really baby danced those 2 days near the positive OPKs so fingers and toes crossed this is the cycle that gets your rainbow xx

Crysshae - Glad you're moving on and so jealous of the salon visit, I'm desperately wanting a shoulder massage but when hubby tries it feels like I'm being beaten up!! He's very heavy handed!! Thinking I might book into a salon too, my boobs have definitely got bigger and were an E cup to start with, I'm tiny everywhere else so you can imagine my shoulders killing me...! Really hope you get a BFP in no time at all xx

Nina - Your test looks positive to me!! Are you going to do a FRER soon? So excited for you, think I might pop if we get another BFP today, I can't take all the excitement ladies!!xx

Nat - I'm going to be clock watching waiting and praying to see your update now, so please let us know as soon as you do!! I nearly posted to you girls before I told hubby !! He told me it was like I was having an affair with my online friends!!

So update, my temp dropped this morning and I peed on a lot of tests this morning, was only meant to do 1 but then freaked out when it didn't come up within seconds so did another and another...! I guess they're all still positive but the line just looks so faint to me, last time I didn't re-test for weeks, by which time the lines were really strong, I was hoping to see progression this time around but they stress me out so much not sure I'll be testing again unless I absolutely have to. With regards to symptoms, I still have none apart from boobs increasing a bit. Going for blood tests today and seeing the doctor a week today to confirm everything and get blood test results.



xxx

Thank you Aleeah! And i Agree stop testing!!

Nina- Im staying positive for you !


I have a third day of pos opk... Is that normal? My temp rose a little today too! and had cramps last night and this morning. !! Im guessing I o'd? xxx

 

[Nina83]

Today opk. Xxx

What are you still doing here?!

 

[Lindsay109]

Nat - I can definitely see progression on your tests, and the positive digi is great news!! I really hope this is it for you

Aleeah - those tests look great 13 dpo! Try not to worry... I will echo the others and say try to stop testing (although I know this is far easier said than done, I tested on and off for a few weeks after my bfp). I hope this is your rainbow baby!!

Nina - any news? I've still got my fingers crossed for you.

Blue - we seem to be at exactly the same spot in our cycles I don't think it's abnormal to get 3 positive opk's in a row - I didn't test today, but did get 2 in a row.

Yes, I should throw out the old hpt's - they're in the back of my sock drawer and I hid them under some socks so I wouldn't have to look at them. Couldn't bring myself to throw them out just after the m/c. Maybe if I'm feeling brave some time this week I will dig them out and get rid of them.

Anyway, I think I've ovulated I had a temp rise this morning and the ovulation pain stopped, I think we timed BD pretty well.... so now it's time to wait .and hope for the best. Hubby and I are thinking of going away next weekend for a couple days, it would be a nice rest and re-charge break after all of the stress of the last couple months

 

[Nat0609]

Today opk. Xxx

What are you still doing here?!

^WSS xx

 

[Nat0609]

Woo hoo for weekend away Linds. I'd love a weekend away xx

 

[bluestars]

Nat - I can definitely see progression on your tests, and the positive digi is great news!! I really hope this is it for you

Aleeah - those tests look great 13 dpo! Try not to worry... I will echo the others and say try to stop testing (although I know this is far easier said than done, I tested on and off for a few weeks after my bfp). I hope this is your rainbow baby!!

Nina - any news? I've still got my fingers crossed for you.

Blue - we seem to be at exactly the same spot in our cycles I don't think it's abnormal to get 3 positive opk's in a row - I didn't test today, but did get 2 in a row.

Yes, I should throw out the old hpt's - they're in the back of my sock drawer and I hid them under some socks so I wouldn't have to look at them. Couldn't bring myself to throw them out just after the m/c. Maybe if I'm feeling brave some time this week I will dig them out and get rid of them.

Anyway, I think I've ovulated I had a temp rise this morning and the ovulation pain stopped, I think we timed BD pretty well.... so now it's time to wait .and hope for the best. Hubby and I are thinking of going away next weekend for a couple days, it would be a nice rest and re-charge break after all of the stress of the last couple months

Haha nice one! lets catch these eggs!! And dont worry Nat and Nina! we are covered hehe !! Lins you temp increase was huge mine was rubbish! xxxx

 

[Nina83]

Cramping is gone, and spotting is still just spotting, nothing heavier than this morning, so I POAS this evening. Urine was diluted, we're in the middle of a heatwave and I drank a ton today.
Here are the results. I don't see much, only when I invert. I'm not feeling much of anything now, neither positive nor negative, so we'll see.
Dh and I had a bit of a quarrel, maybe that's where the badish mood comes from.
I really should have waited until tomorrow morning!

 

[Nat0609]

I see something faint on the original. It's so annoying when you can't get a good pic or be sure if BFP or not xx