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Waiting for the other shoe to drop...

Issybelle

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Hi ladies, I am hoping you can share some insights with me.

It has not been too long trying for baby #2, although it has taken me over a year and change to get to the point where I was able to try and conceive.

This month, my October cycle, was the best we had so far and it has resulted in a pregnancy. However, it looks like the pregnancy is not viable. I had positives on Friday and Saturday, followed by negatives Sunday and Tuesday. Last night I started bleeding as well, although it has stopped.

A doctor's visit this AM confirmed that yes, there is still a pregnancy there, but there is bleeding on the opposite side. He has given me a blood test and we are waiting for the results and to see what my body does over the next few days. I think its a foregone conclusion considering the pregnancy tests have all gone start white and I am today 19 dpo.

My biggest fears at this point is that this will be a missed miscarriage and that surgery will be required to start over and if that will result in further complications.

If any of you have any insights or your own experiences to share, I am listening. I got pregnant with my daughter 6 years ago on basically the first go, but a PCOS like disorder has made TTC a whole different thing this time around.
 
Sorry to hear about your loss. I know it how hard it is. I had a miscarriage at about 5 weeks. And was diagnosed with an ectopic at just a few days shy of 6 weeks. Did they do an early ultrasound then? I wouldn't worry too much. Early miscarriages almost always resolve themselves and even if you have to do a D&C my best friend had two and she now has a 15 mo old baby:) Try to give yourself a break emotionally because you're going to need it over the next few weeks and worrying about things that are out of your control won't help. The "what ifs" can really make the healing process so much worse.:hugs: Take care and keep me posted.
 
Lucky for me here my doctor in Sweden has a small ultrasound machine in his office. Therefore, we saw the empty sac.

The bleeding has greatly increased and so I am hopeful that when I talk to the doctor tomorrow and he tells me there is no hcg that he can also have me come in to confirm via ultrasound that all has passed. That is what I am hoping for. Then it will just be as if my period came 4 or 5 days late.
 
This early the pregnancy will pass on its own. I had the same happen before. You can also ttc again as soon as you are ready :hugs:
 
Thanks. The doctor confirmed today what I already knew, so we should be set to try again around the end of the month or first days in December. He is going to do a check on Wednesday to see how I am.
 
im very sorry for your loss I had a MC in August and it took 7 weeks after my D&C to get AF this will be my 2nd month of TTC..... wishing you lots of baby dust
 

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