Breeelizabeth
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Hi everyone!
My name is Bree and I’ve been around this forum for a loooong time although never this particular thread. I have three amazing kids (Lottie 5 1/2, Madden 3 1/2 and Ireland who is 22 months)
By all accounts I thought I was done having babies. My hubby is done. Until I had a pregnancy scare and realised that deep down I really did hope that I was pregnant and that maybe I wasn’t as done as I thought.
My husband and I got married earlier this month and I mentioned it to him that I would like him to think about having another. He has always been 10000% against having another. He said he’d think on it and eventually came back and said yes - but with the proviso that we move to a bigger rental home first (we need a 4 bedroom house desperately!) and then we’ll look to try in January (but if it happens sooner I won’t be mad )
My biggest fear is that hubby changes his mind. Sometimes he says things and I think maybe he’s not sure - for example he got angry at me the other day for talking about what style names he likes but on the other hand he said I could buy these beautiful Muslin wraps that were on clearance yesterday if I wanted for the baby. I did say if it’s really not something he wants or he thinks he might change his mind he needs to express that so that I don’t get my hopes up, but he said it’s ok and he won’t change his mind - he just needs some time to wrap his head around it.
I need to stop myself from buying all the baby things. Anyone else? Or are you guys stocking up. I have most of what I need from my other 3 but I’d like to invest in a new pram and a new breastpump (I’m currently breastfeeding my 22 month old and the Medela I have is pretty useless)
My name is Bree and I’ve been around this forum for a loooong time although never this particular thread. I have three amazing kids (Lottie 5 1/2, Madden 3 1/2 and Ireland who is 22 months)
By all accounts I thought I was done having babies. My hubby is done. Until I had a pregnancy scare and realised that deep down I really did hope that I was pregnant and that maybe I wasn’t as done as I thought.
My husband and I got married earlier this month and I mentioned it to him that I would like him to think about having another. He has always been 10000% against having another. He said he’d think on it and eventually came back and said yes - but with the proviso that we move to a bigger rental home first (we need a 4 bedroom house desperately!) and then we’ll look to try in January (but if it happens sooner I won’t be mad )
My biggest fear is that hubby changes his mind. Sometimes he says things and I think maybe he’s not sure - for example he got angry at me the other day for talking about what style names he likes but on the other hand he said I could buy these beautiful Muslin wraps that were on clearance yesterday if I wanted for the baby. I did say if it’s really not something he wants or he thinks he might change his mind he needs to express that so that I don’t get my hopes up, but he said it’s ok and he won’t change his mind - he just needs some time to wrap his head around it.
I need to stop myself from buying all the baby things. Anyone else? Or are you guys stocking up. I have most of what I need from my other 3 but I’d like to invest in a new pram and a new breastpump (I’m currently breastfeeding my 22 month old and the Medela I have is pretty useless)
. Regret it now but at least if our upcoming FET works I’ll have the fun of choosing everything again 
