I hope this is the right forum for this topic- if not, I apologize.
I have the option of giving birth at a hospital where (hypothetically) I can have a drug free birth with minimal interventions, if I fight for it and if I dont cave under their fear tactics.
Or, I can give birth at a really nice birthing center, with no unwanted interventions, where Ill be encouraged to labor however works best for me and my baby.
I cant give birth at home due to my insurance not covering it and me not having the cash.
So, the obvious answer is the birthing center, right?
Not so much. Now that it comes down to actually making the decision, I find myself paralyzed by the what ifs:
What is the baby is born in distress? What if we need a NICU (neonatal intensive care) and I chose a place 15 minutes away from the nearest hospital? I have done tons of research and I know that most births can easily be handled away from a hospital, but what if my baby is one of the ones that needs emergency medical care? What if, what if, what if?
I know the birth center fits my family best but I am struggling. I did not expect to feel this way. Did other mothers feel this and how did you work through these anxieties?
I have the option of giving birth at a hospital where (hypothetically) I can have a drug free birth with minimal interventions, if I fight for it and if I dont cave under their fear tactics.
Or, I can give birth at a really nice birthing center, with no unwanted interventions, where Ill be encouraged to labor however works best for me and my baby.
I cant give birth at home due to my insurance not covering it and me not having the cash.
So, the obvious answer is the birthing center, right?
Not so much. Now that it comes down to actually making the decision, I find myself paralyzed by the what ifs:
What is the baby is born in distress? What if we need a NICU (neonatal intensive care) and I chose a place 15 minutes away from the nearest hospital? I have done tons of research and I know that most births can easily be handled away from a hospital, but what if my baby is one of the ones that needs emergency medical care? What if, what if, what if?
I know the birth center fits my family best but I am struggling. I did not expect to feel this way. Did other mothers feel this and how did you work through these anxieties?