Wanted!! TTC buddy

[Joanne82]

Just to give you a little about me.

I am 29 years old, have a loving partner and a beautiful stepson, however I can't wait to have my own child. I love being a stepmum and all the challenges that it brings, and I would be lost if anything ever happened to him, but he's not my own.

We have been trying for 8 months now but sadly no baby to show for it YET!!

The problem that I have is that we haven't told our families about us trying because I don't think that I could cope with the questions and stress that would go with it. My other problem is one of my sisters is the most fertile woman in England, 4 children at 24 and the other is more than happy with her two so none of them would understand what I am going through.

Sadly my friends are not in the same place as me, they are job focussed or single at the moment so a baby is the last thing on their mind. Whilst the OH is supportive and sympathetic he is already a dad so doesn't fully understand my tears and frustrations.

So what I am asking for is a TTC buddy who wants to laugh, cry, share and discuss things with who understands exactly how I am feeling

 

[tiffanyj1982]

Hey I'm 29 as well. I have a stepdaughter so my husband is the same as yours. He would be happy if we did but not upset if we don't. I also have custody of my 2 nephews. We have not been preventing since august. Although its only been a few months I'm getting discouraged. I also have a prolactinoma which is a tumor that produces prolactin and causes no ovulation however I'm on meds for that and hopefully will conceive soon. If you wanna buddy let me know

 

[Joanne82]

If you wanna buddy let me know

Hi Tiffany,

Thanks for replying to me, It's great to chat to someone else who understands where I am and whats going through my head.

Fingers crossed for the meds working and it would be great to be your buddy x

 

[tiffanyj1982]

Yay I got a buddy!

 

[tiffanyj1982]

Think I'm gonna test this weekend if no af