Wanting another one???

[xxxbexxy_beex]

Hi there im really new to this thing...
Im 19 with a beautiful daughter who is 25 months ive been with my partner for over 3 years and now i really want another one like so so badly ive had my implanon removed but now im thinking that people might judge me and think im too young.. I have my own home and a reasonable income.. I just dont know if its a good idea or not to go through with it or even if i will ever fall pregnant again because ive heard the implanon can cause infertility.
I would just really appreciate some advice thanks xxxx

 

[vinteenage]

I don't know if this is really the place for this to be asking for this type of advice...

However, as long as you're financially stable and have a healthy relationship with your OH I see no reason to not try for a second baby, as long as you're sure and your OH agrees with the idea of another child as well.

I'm pregnant with my first, and ideally I would like to have a second child within the next three years. I'm 18 now...so well by the time I'm 21. I'd only do it though if OH and I are financially stable, and nowadays it's so hard to know how things are going to play out regarding that. :/

 

[Jadelm]

Go over to the trying to conceive section hun they'll have some great advice for you of course you are welcome here too just not sure on the advice you'll get as the majority of these babies were little surprises

But I have to say if you're financially stable and in a loving relationship then what more does one need to raise a child? People do fab jobs with less than that so if it's what you want then go for it, don't let what other people think stop you doing something so special. Good luck xxxx

 

[lovelyladies]

I had two close in age and it was very difficult for me, but ended up being so beneficial for them. They are very lucky.

 

[aafscsweetie]

Only you know what is best for you in your situation, so if you feel that TTC is right for you, by all means do it, and don't let anyone put you down about it. As people said, there is a TTC section on this board so maybe they would be more help than us!

 

[rainbows_x]

I agree that you know what is best, if you are both ready & financially stable then go for it! x

 

[xxxbexxy_beex]

Wow how did this thread pop back up? Lol well i realised that i was actually already pregnant so i didnt need to try lol.. Im always on this forum now lol xxx

 

[Burchy314]

Wow this is like the third thread to come back up from August today! It seems like Lovelyladies is always the one to do it, but I don't think she is meaning to. (that isn't supposed to sound mean so sorry if it did)

I was reading this and I was like..."wait isn't she already pregnant with her second?" so confusing haha because I never look at the date.