Warning RANT!!

[soph901]

Hi Ladies,

Well its official I have been single almost 18 months but I've never been so angry as I am now the FOB got a new gf 5 months ago 4 weeks after my lo was born, that I could accept yeh it bloody hurt but least I knew he was moving on but at same time I felt bad for my lo. So anyway I decided seeming he did one to Leeds in September that I would claim CSA as I'm a student and struggling with money but I found out cos hes a student at uni he doesnt have to pay?! isnt it enough I had to go through the whole pregnancy alone and 6 months after that too and now I can barely afford christmas I feel so depressed and lonely all I want is a man that treats me right but tbh I'm losing faith all the men I seem to come in contact with dont want children or are exactly like my ex urgh whats the world coming to when ur 25 and your on the flaming shelf cos u have a kid sorry for the rant but really needed to vent x

 

[Jade--x]

To be honest I don't think the CSA should have a nil rate for student father's if theyre at uni, they still get more than enough to live on and most people still work through uni too, its just an easy way for them to avoid paying. As a student mother I still have to support my children with what I have, why shouldn't they? They get more than people claiming Job seekers and they still take £5 a week from them? Its stupid.

Sorry you're feeling so crap honey but you're not on the shelf at all. Just be happy being you and your little one and when you least expect it the right guy will come along x

 

[Ceejay123]

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[soph901]

Thanks ladies Feeling a lil better today think I've just accepted it now nothing I can do still makes me angry but whats the use in crying over split milk x

 

[Ceejay123]

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[babycrazy1706]

Big hugs to you. Xx