Warning TMI question!!!!

[misstia]

Ok, sooooooo, wondering if anyone else has had bad cramping after an orgasm. I know, TMI, but of course I am totaly freaked out having sex with hubby in the first place (I know it's safe, but I still worry, just a thing I do), but yesterday after "O" i got horrible cramps and was so scared the the contracting might hurt baby. OK only serious answers please. I know this is silly (Im a Nursing student, again I know sex is safe), but when I was pregnant with DD that never happened (the bad cramping), but it has happened sometimes in the past went AF was realy close.

Just wondering if anyone else has experienced it, LOL or are you too afraid to BD in the first place this early on????

 

[LilMissHappy]

i read about this in my what to expect when your expecting book and it said it was normal, apparently an orgasm is like a very very little contraction, but not stong enough to make you go into labour in the early days. so dont worry. it also said that the baby likes the movement that it gets when you orgasm! i know how worrying it is when you get pains,but you will be fine. it did mention not to have it to deep if you get pains. we havent done it since i found out a week ago. think we will wait another week or so then give it a go again!
x

 

[misstia]

Thanks Lil.

 

[BabyBG]

Girl, if you feel good enough then go for it! I would love to get jiggy cuz everything is swollen and tingly ( talk about TMI!) but I'm so sick I'm afraid I'll blow like a shaken pop bottle!

 

[MissBabyBump]

I know it is normal to get a little blood after sex...but my doctor told me that if I hurt at all (cramping/bleeding) to take it easy for a bit until after 1st Tri or just be more gentle... When you are in 1st tri your risks of MC are higher and disrupting something are higher

 

[LuvBeingAMum]

I am too paniky tried a bit last night but to scared to o myself!! No point then really eh?!? pmsl.......jk
But maybe if your scared then dont do it for bit or do very gently xxxxxx

 

[qpaulina42]

honestly, I've been to nervous to have sex or have any orgasms at all of any kind... thankfully my libido seems to have crawled away and died somewhere at the moment.