well like i said in my earlier post theres deff my sis and best friend then i want my cousin and then i want OHs cousin and then i wanted a different one of OHs cousins 2 girls as flower girls but shes got 4 girls and i cant have 2 and not the other 2 so im stuck with what to do, OH says i should have them all but that means id have 6 bridesmaids and 2 flower girls and i think that would be to many