Welcome to the ttc in fall group..........AUTUMN ACORNS!!!!

[vaniilla]

I didn't do any stretching either, I had to have an episiotomy in the end so it didn't affect it.

BB54 - your avatar is so cute and summery!

 

[trgirl308]

It was actually my DH that suggested it... apparently someone he works with told him that was one of his duties to stretch me out using a spoon... not sure I am a fan of that part!

Thanks for the feedback.

 

[babyb54]

A spoon!

 

[hakunamatata]

Better than a fork

 

[trgirl308]

better than a fork

owie!

 

[kitty2385]

Haha a spoon!!!

 

[vaniilla]

a spoon!!!! I hope a wooden one sounds less sharp!

 

[anniepie]

Oh my...I didn't even know that 'stretching' was something that was advised...

Can't believe all these beautiful acorns and more due soon

I'm two and a half week off my one year anniversary of TTC...I never thought I'd still be TTC now and feeling utterly down about it. I honestly thought we'd fall easily. OK AF is due today/yesterday, and she hasn't shown yet, but I know she'll be here before the end of the day...

 

[trgirl308]

Annie, waiting isn't easy. But it will happen, one way or another! Are you and your DH going to look into getting tested or wait a few more months?

 

[anniepie]

We'll wait some months. We fell pregnant before 4 years ago ('through' a condom and despite taking the MAP!) so we know we can or at least could. We've had a couple of months where we didn't try at all because of the wedding, so the next few months I guess we'll go for it all guns blazing and if still nothing, guess we'll follow up. DH isn't really worried at the moment cos it's not really been at the forefront of his mind, but I'm feeling drained by it. I think as the woman when you're charting every day, and constantly wondering, you can't just put it out of your mind...

 

[trgirl308]

Definitely harder as the woman, especially the closer you get to af you think about it almost constantly... then you're also busy trying to hide all that from your dh so he doesn't get disappointed.. (or think you're crazy) lol.

Your plan makes sense, a wedding adds stress whether we realize it or not, so I'm sure now that things are settled down you'll have an easier time.

 

[babyb54]

Aw, Annie.. I can't pretend to know what you're going through, but I can imagine how hard it must be. You're totally entitled to feeling down and a bit exhausted.. I mean my goodness, they always taught us growing up that falling pregnant was easy and something we'd have to take great measures to AVOID..not to DO! But I really really hope that your time is coming SOONSOONSOON (hey you're not out this month!!), and I can tell you that once your LO is here, it will ALL be SO worthwhile.

 

[babynewbie]

Big hugs anniepie I have everything crossed for you for this month!

 

[anniepie]

Thanks ladies...just having my own little pity party today

 

[hakunamatata]

Annie

 

[Andielina]

Annie. Everyone's entitled to feel down and out when things don't pan out the way we'd like. I hope you get your bfp super soon!!!

 

[Mrs Gibbo]

Annie. Everyone's entitled to feel down and out when things don't pan out the way we'd like. I hope you get your bfp super soon!!!

Yeah, me too. Like tomorrow?! Whatever happens, you LP is looking fantastic this month

 

[anniepie]

seriously...almost 9pm and no AF???? Am not ready to believe e this could be it....but hope are starting to increase again....almost tempted to pee on an IC this evening with the knowledge its not fmu and doesn't really mean anything if negative...

 

[Mrs Gibbo]

Not to be the devil on your shoulder but I got my first line at (I think) 9dpo around 8pm...

 

[Andielina]

I'm a poas-aholic so my advice is

It's an ic, it's not fmu. If it's negative no prob bob.

But no af yet??? You don't have to get your hopes up- I'll get mine up for you!!

C'mon !!!