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Does anyone have any advice on what I can do here please!
I have 3 lovely DDs who on the whole are wonderful- sweet, funny and loving. My eldest is great with her sisters, she and dd2 mostly play well and she dotes on the baby. However, at night she is becoming increasingly more difficult in a deliberate way and I’m running out of ideas with her. She wakes up every night at least twice and has done for a year since we moved house- she used to sleep through. She says she needs the toilet and I have accepted the fact that she won’t go alone even with a nightlight etc. So I get up when she comes in and I take her, however when I put her back to bed with a cuddle and kiss she then comes in again and says she needs another one, she goes into the bathroom and coughs as loudly as she can, moans groans, slams things etc, as though she is desperate to wake her dad and sisters also despite me asking her so many times to be quiet. She’s a bright girl and knows exactly what she’s doing. She then comes in again and says her bum hurts or her foot itches or she wants a different teddy— anything she can think of to make sure we are all awake and stressed. I don’t know why she does this!!! We’ve tried reward charts, extra cuddles and being really nice telling her it’s ok etc, I’ve gotten cross, taken away treats etc like iPad time , I let her stay up later than her sisters for movies etc so she gets extra attention, we both read to her together when her sisters are asleep and she gets so many cuddles and kisses. She knows how much it upsets me when she tries to deliberately wake everyone- but it’s getting worse and I’m out of ideas!! I’ve asked her why and she doesn’t know. Already I’m up with the baby at night breastfeeding her once or twice and I’ve been back in work a few months so I’d desperately like this to stop as it can go on for So long! It makes me so mad as I know it is deliberate. She has a very happy life with a beautiful bedroom, lots of activities, friends over and family days out but this has been going on so long! Any ideas please!!!!
I have 3 lovely DDs who on the whole are wonderful- sweet, funny and loving. My eldest is great with her sisters, she and dd2 mostly play well and she dotes on the baby. However, at night she is becoming increasingly more difficult in a deliberate way and I’m running out of ideas with her. She wakes up every night at least twice and has done for a year since we moved house- she used to sleep through. She says she needs the toilet and I have accepted the fact that she won’t go alone even with a nightlight etc. So I get up when she comes in and I take her, however when I put her back to bed with a cuddle and kiss she then comes in again and says she needs another one, she goes into the bathroom and coughs as loudly as she can, moans groans, slams things etc, as though she is desperate to wake her dad and sisters also despite me asking her so many times to be quiet. She’s a bright girl and knows exactly what she’s doing. She then comes in again and says her bum hurts or her foot itches or she wants a different teddy— anything she can think of to make sure we are all awake and stressed. I don’t know why she does this!!! We’ve tried reward charts, extra cuddles and being really nice telling her it’s ok etc, I’ve gotten cross, taken away treats etc like iPad time , I let her stay up later than her sisters for movies etc so she gets extra attention, we both read to her together when her sisters are asleep and she gets so many cuddles and kisses. She knows how much it upsets me when she tries to deliberately wake everyone- but it’s getting worse and I’m out of ideas!! I’ve asked her why and she doesn’t know. Already I’m up with the baby at night breastfeeding her once or twice and I’ve been back in work a few months so I’d desperately like this to stop as it can go on for So long! It makes me so mad as I know it is deliberate. She has a very happy life with a beautiful bedroom, lots of activities, friends over and family days out but this has been going on so long! Any ideas please!!!!