What do I do?

[susan_1981]

I just went to the toilet and noticed a tiny bit of brownish colour when I wiped. I'm assuming this is the start of my miscarriage but I'm booked on Monday to have D&C. If I start to bleed heavily, do I just wait to see if nature will take its course or do I need to go to A&E? And what about Monday? Would I still go in for my op?

 

[FEDup1981]

im not sure hun, but didnt wanna read n run. I think you just stay at home, unless its really bad. I would still go on monday to make sure everything is gone. Im so sorry, today of all days.

 

[haaza123]

Personally i would go to A&E to see what they say. I know that at 8 weeks thay say there is alot of blood and its really painful. And at 4 and 5 weeks they let nature take its course. These are from my past experiences. Not sure about 7 weeks.

HTH.
to you. Thinking of you.
xx

 

[honey08]

hiya susan , when i had an internal scan and they told me my nightmare had cum true(not this on, 1stpregnancy in march) i went home bleeding, and she said to me, if u fill a pad within half hr then cum straight up....and it was awful, i filled a pad in mintues but it only lasted 5min, i got shower and it slowed down, wk later i went for my dnc and i said, i dont think theres anything eles to cum out uknow, ive bled so much, she scanned me and there was loads left she said wot wuda cum out was part of the sac .... u do wot u feel right hun, if u want to go up2 A&E or stay at home then do so, BUT if the bleeding gets to heavy, like i said, defo phone ambalance
my hearts really aching for u susan, seems like yday since i was there where u r now

 

[susan_1981]

I think I'm going to wait. I haven't had much bleeding, well I haven't had any bleeding, it's just brownish spotting every now and again and I don't have any cramps. Every now and again I feel slightly crampy but nothing really painful. The sonographer said that I could wait for this miscarriage to happen naturally on its own so I suppose, as long as I don't get too much blood or too much pain, then I'll be fine to wait. Only today and tomorrow to get through until I have my ERPC so I'll wait and see. It'll probably happen tomorrow night knowing my luck!

 

[honey08]

if it does start b4 monday,still defo go in monday, cos i did...i was bleeding a lot and had a wk to wait,but then they scanned me again (sure they will do same with u)
no not long now, when i went and came home, i was of course extremley stressed but then id had a wk b4 dnc to deal with it, to be honest i just wished my body bk to normal asap, to try again,to try for a super sticky healthy bean

 

[Vivanco]

I was booked in for my D and c with my last m/cbut nature took it's course on the sunday night, the EpAC was closed on the sunday so we went along on the monday morning and i explained what happened they did a scan and let me go home. I am so sorry you are going through this honey. I have had 3 m/c's if you need to talk i'm here x

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

i was in hospital with my last m/c i was ment 2 have a d&c but that didnt go to plan. i m/c with assistance and the dr said i would have struggled at home alone. its always best 2 consult a dr if your not sure.
i wouldnt go it alone hunni.

 

[susan_1981]

Thanks. Well the bleeding is still very very slight. It's a very pale brown colour and I just notice every so often so I think it's slowly starting. I do feel ok about this at the moment, although I think it may hit me again on Monday. I have this feeling I will feel very empty but at least then, I can concentrate on getting myself better and starting over xxx

 

[Rumpskin]

Still go for your appointment and dont cancel it (like I did - big mistake). It is best that you get checked out regardless of what stage of the miscarriage you are at.

I found that when I was miscarrying, a bath helped with the pain and was told to take paracetamol.

Please feel free to PM me at any time xxx