What do i do ?

[abigaaaail]

This is my first time being pregnant . and i'm finding this difficult , i get very emotional and i don't get hungry . i get moody and start arguments with my partner he doesn't understands me at all and it just stresses him and he has a short temper so i get all worried of what to do :/ i don't want a miscarriage how can i prevent it and not start arguments with my boyfriend -.-

 

[Wobbles]

Moved to first trimester from forum help and testing area

 

[Spaggy37]

Welcome to being pregnant, everything you have stated are 'normal' symptoms of pregnancy, if u r gonna miscarriage u will, sorry for being so blunt, i take one day at a time ( i have had a previous mc) its all u can do, maybe get some books or magazines that yourself and your OH can read, it will help you both understand what is going on, there is a light at the end of the tunnel it is called 12 weeks, if there is anything else i can help u with please don't hesitate to ask

If not a H & H 9 months

 

[shirlls]

A first pregnancy is always quite a daunting and emotional experience, unfortunately I can't give you any great advice except to take one day at a time, and try to talk to people, like your boyfriend, friends and family as much as you can as you need support when feeling like this. Perhaps sitting down with your boyfriend and telling him how you feel, that you don't want to argue with him but you feel like you can't help it. Sometimes hormones are hard to control, though maybe even talking to your GP about it might be helpful?

Re miscarriage, it is a common worry but unfortunately if it is going to happen, nothing you can do is going to stop it from happening. But there is nothing to say that this will happen to you, just take care of yourself and try to enjoy being pregnant best you can. I have had 2 mcs so this pregnancy is a constant worry, but I am just taking it a day at a time and unless I get any reason to think otherwise I will just carry on best I can and try to put the miscarriage risk out my head. you could easily drive yourself crazy by thinking about it all the time. Try to avoid threads on here which mention miscarriage as they'll only scare you and put things in your head. Keeping busy is helpful as it takes your mind off the threat of miscarriage and also every twinge and pain which might scare you.

A lot of women on here who are pregnant for the first time feel the same way as you do, so pop on here anytime if you need to talk, or need support. I know I am finding it hard at the moment but what helps me is thinking that whatever will be will be, and taking one day at a time.

xxxx