What have we done to deserve all this?

Jadelm

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I really don't know how much more I can take. After everything with my Dad and then FOB and now possible down's syndrome for my little girl.. my Mum's got symptoms of cervical cancer (she's had it before and had it treated a few years ago) :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

I feel like I'm being punished for something, how much badness can one family have in less than a year?

Sorry guys, I'm not really expecting any answers I just needed to get it out as I'm trying to not get upset :(
 
Oh hun, I really don't know what to say.
You dont deserve any of this, you seem like such a lovely, caring person & are dealing with things so well :(
I wish I could say/do something to make you feel better.
:hugs::hugs::hugs:
xxxxxx
 
aww hun, I dont know full story regarding your dad or FOB but :hug:

My mum also had symptoms of cancer late last year/earlier this year and had abnormal cells so I know how hard and how scary it is.

Just keep your fingers and toes crossed its JUST 'symptoms'
and remember, shes had it before, she fought it. She can do it again :)

:hug:
xxxx
 
:hugs:

I don't understand how life can be so cruel to such a lovely person :nope:
xx
 
My Dad was diagnosed with an aggressive terminal cancer last October and passed away earlier this year so it's all too fresh in my mind how cancer can turn out :cry:
Hopefully it's just like last time and she can have some quick treatment and it'll go.. or even better it's nothing!!

Oh and me and FOB just had a upsetting break up :nope:

Thanks everyone, it's funny how no matter how bad a situation is just some kind words can make you feel a bit better :hugs: xxx
 
hun, i dont know what to say! :(
you have been through enough, you totally dont deserve this! i hope your mum is okay.
:hugs::hugs::hugs:
xxxxxxxxxxx
 
bad things dont happen because you deserve them =[ i dont think anyway. and honestly i think they're pointless, but they can help make us stronger.
I hope everything goes well with your mom and little girl!
:hugs::hugs:
 
:hugs:
Hun, I am so sorry that all of this is happening to you. Just remember - we're only given what we can deal with. The fact that you can get through everything just shows how brave and strong you are, and that you're going to emerge even stronger at the end.
I can't even begin to imagine how it feels for you, but if you ever need support, you know where we all are xxx
 
I'm always here if you ever need to talk, I've had two first hand experiences with cancer too, it's horrible I know :hugs: Life can be so cruel. FX'd for your little princess and for your Mum :hugs:
 
i didnt want to read and run hun but there isnt much that i can say other than we are all here for you if u need us and big big big hugs

and i'll keep my fingers crossed that everything works out okay 4 u
 
:hugs: you really dont deserve this hun

I hope your mum is ok

xx
 
Aww hun :( I hope your mum is ok , and same for your LO.

Unfortunately life has a tendancy to bite us on the backside during the times when we are struggling.
 
Thanks everyone :hugs: She's seeing the doctor next week so with the results on bubs possible DS next week too.. it can either be a really good week and I will promise never to get down about silly things ever again and be thankful for EVERYTHING.. or it will go very crappy.. hmm fingers crossed x
 
aw hun you dont deserve one bit of this, i really hope everythings ok and please keep us updated :hugs: xx
 
my mom is recovering from breast cancer, and i'm having to have some tests run on my LO due to earlier problem as wells, so although it isn't the exact same, if you ever want to talk, PM anytime.
 
Jade i'm so sorry. You are an amazing, beautiful person and you don't deserve any bit of what's happened to you. I really hope everything going on right now gets better, and that there's absolutely nothing wrong w/ your mom and Evie. :hugs:
 

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