What have you told LO about FOB?

[Mummy2aStar]

Hi.. this is a very difficult decision, but it's finding a balance between the truth and making the right decision for them, and hoping it's the right choice. The father of my children does not see them any longer, my youngest doesn't ask about.him at all. However, my eldest remembers an awful lot as to why we no longer see him, so therefore does not want to.see him, but it doesn't't make answering questions any easier, she asks a lot of questions to why he done this, or why he done that, and its very hard to answer, especially since I.don't want my opinion of him to effect her opinion of him.. if you know what I mean? X