What is wrong with me!?

[Luyandasmummy]

I'm 16w6d, father of my baby and i live apart but i spend most of time at his place. Its been two weeks now that we go bed upset or angry at each other and barely talking to one another, not mentioning the non existence of intimacy. I feel like his not attentive and sensitive to my emotions. I sometimes feel he forgets im pregnant. He doesnt treat me the way I wish to be treated. Just the other day he called me a problem . Everyday is a drag. Our relationship is less dramatic when we away from each other. I know space is healthy but truth is even though we fight all the time and our intimacy is dying out I still want to be around him all the time. I'm not sure if I'm too attached to him but despite all the drama I want to live with him, I don't like being alone.

 

[Nerdy]

Have you two considered couples counseling at all? Most churches will sit you down and help out or there's legit counselors with programs designed around married and unwed couples.

 

[bunyhuny]

Yeah, I agree with nerdy. You two might want to think about talking to someone. Pregnancy can take a real toll on even the healthiest of relationships.

 

[kariss]

I have times like this too, we go through stages lol. I think it comes down to tiredness and everything else more than actual problems in our relationship! We live together and both work full time and can tell when we are both tired and snappy! I think it's just about compromise..I know you don't feel he is treating you the way you want to be treated but how about focusing on the things he does do for you..even the little things. I notice when I'm nicer and more thankful my OH appreciates this and then in turn is more likely to act more that way..
I hope that makes sense? If you feel you need something more like counselling like the others mentioned then go for it, it won't hurt.
X

 

[Luyandasmummy]

i think I will suggest counselling, thats my last hope honestly, thank you so much