What is....?

[lexus15]

Your cp suppose to feel like? I'm 10dpo & as you've guessed I've never checked it

I tried yesterday & today squatting over the toilet (like I've read) but I never felt nothing...it was like my finger was lost in space!

 

[Beccaface]

Well, my CP atm is high, closed, wet & soft.
When AF is here, or coming its low, hard & dry.
x

 

[lexus15]

Thanks Beccaface, when I tried today I couldn't find or feel it!

 

[snl41296]

When AF is here, or coming its low/medium, hard.

 

[libbymarks198]

i'm the same i dont know what exactly i am feeling for

 

[LoolaBear]

when i ovulate mines really high i can only just find it and is wet and very soft. and then when i fell pregnant with the twins it stayed high. its the cervix way of trying to stop bacteria getting to it to avoid it getting to the unborn baby. but if af is on its way it comes down so that the broken down lining doenst have as far to travel so can be dispersed from the body easier.

how long does your letual phase tend to be? xx

 

[Beccaface]

You might not be able to feel it because it is so high lovely.
I have those days.
x

 

[libbymarks198]

i just had a wee go, i think mine is high and wet and sorta soft sorta not haha i dont know though prob wasnt even my c that i was feeling

 

[Lucina]

I have yet to figure out where mine is and what Im looking for, its all a mystery to me

 

[libbymarks198]

i read that you out your finger up and then pull back, i can either feel something within a centermeter of the vag or up really really high, who knows its hard aye!!

 

[maddog37]

In your infertile time, it should be lower and feel like the tip of your nose. If you follow it to the back gently, you can feel a little rough patch, kinda like a small opening.

As you become fertile (around ovulation), it should go up and become softer; I find it harder to feel then, It turns from feeling like a nose to feeling like your lip (a little puffy and soft), If you explore the opening, be very careful not to go in, which can be hard to tell. I'm pretty sure I accidentally stuck a tiny bit of finger in before I realized I'm not still on the outside; it hurts and I got strong AF like cramps right after.

 

[lexus15]

i'm the same i dont know what exactly i am feeling for

Glad its not only me then libbymarks!

 

[lexus15]

when i ovulate mines really high i can only just find it and is wet and very soft. and then when i fell pregnant with the twins it stayed high. its the cervix way of trying to stop bacteria getting to it to avoid it getting to the unborn baby. but if af is on its way it comes down so that the broken down lining doenst have as far to travel so can be dispersed from the body easier.

how long does your letual phase tend to be? xx

Hi hun, thanks for the info..I believe my letual phase is 12-13 days? Good/bad?!

 

[lexus15]

In your infertile time, it should be lower and feel like the tip of your nose. If you follow it to the back gently, you can feel a little rough patch, kinda like a small opening.

As you become fertile (around ovulation), it should go up and become softer; I find it harder to feel then, It turns from feeling like a nose to feeling like your lip (a little puffy and soft), If you explore the opening, be very careful not to go in, which can be hard to tell. I'm pretty sure I accidentally stuck a tiny bit of finger in before I realized I'm not still on the outside; it hurts and I got strong AF like cramps right after.

Thanks maddog, tomorrow I'll be 11dpo if AF isn't here then I'll try again..wish me luck

 

[jenny873]

do u 'put your finger up and pull back' towards your back or pull your finger back as in towards your front, lol im confused, does it feel like a little dougnut haa x

 

[lulu35]

this month my cervix was like a yo-yo!!...some days really low down and others only mid high...got my a week ago and right now its low, soft, tightly closed and i have lotiony like cm and tons of it (tmi sorry!)...previous months it went by the book and was where and felt like what it should do at certain times of the month but this month was just different and so was my cm, right from the day of OV...

 

[lexus15]

Thanks Jemmaloo..Congrats on your BFP

Tested this morning with an ic (11dpo) but got a BFN, feels like AF may be here soon!

 

[libbymarks198]

11 dpo early tho hun, i am feeling positive for you this cycle haha, feeling that for everyone except myself

 

[maddog37]

Tested this morning with an ic (11dpo) but got a BFN, feels like AF may be here soon!

Me too Lexus. Boo to our BFNs! I tested at 13dpo, but just realized I'm probably 4 days early. I'm going to test again next Sunday if AF hasn't come by then. You're testing early as well. FXed for both of us! There's still hope!

 

[lexus15]

11 dpo early tho hun, i am feeling positive for you this cycle haha, feeling that for everyone except myself

Thanks for the pma babe, need lots of it!!. Gd luck to you as well.