What should I do??

[Tam]

Go with your heart babe, this is your body and your pregnancy, YOU have to feel comfortable with you rcare-providers! Forget what other peopel are saying, it is your decision ultimately!

Don't let them miserable sods get to you like this, pregnancy is hard enough as it is, without being made to feel bad about something that a lot of women do (me included) when pregnant.

No one can refuse you care.......they can do for certain medical reasons, but there will always be someone out there to take you on!

Now cheer up, you have a lovely bouncing bundle of joy in there, and Noah needs you to be happy! Good Luck babe! x

 

[VanWest]

Thanks everyone The reason I paid then 500 was because my insurance is an 80/20 plan. So my out of pocket included a 500 hospital deductible and a 450 after my plan pays its 80% to the hospital. So they have you make "payments" so I paid it before my hubby had lost his job. Then I fount out my works insurance was changeing and this plan has NO deductible! grrr I cant win lol

 

[AquaDementia]

I think you need to speak to the doctors. You have a right as a patient to express your unsatisfaction with the service you are receiving.
I can bet that after that it will be a whole new game.

You are not a little kid, a grown adult, ready to be a parent.

 

[Holldoll]

It sounds like that because it's January, you would have had to pay the deductible again anyway and now that you no deductible it won't cost you anything to switch.

 

[anita665]

I don't know how things work where you are because I'm in the UK but I wouldn't put up with a doctor I didn't like.

I've still had a few I couldn't get along with. A few years ago when I was suffering badly with depression, I was under a surgery run by husband and wife doctors. First I saw the husband who was very cold and just wanted to put me on medication. Then I saw his wife and OMG.... how did she ever become a doctor?! Rather than want to know what was wrong with me she'd spend 20 mins to 1/2 hour each time I went telling me about her terrible life (it was pretty bad) and how she wanted kids but her previous husband didn't but then he cheated on her, left her and had a baby with this other woman. Then their baby was all over the newspapers on New Years day of 2000 as the Mellenium (spelling?) baby. She did this with many of her patients.

 

[VanWest]

It sounds like that because it's January, you would have had to pay the deductible again anyway and now that you no deductible it won't cost you anything to switch.

Yes,spot on. So I did ask for them to refund my money and I was told the money would be refunded 6 west post. Oh well.

 

[VanWest]

I don't know how things work where you are because I'm in the UK but I wouldn't put up with a doctor I didn't like.

I've still had a few I couldn't get along with. A few years ago when I was suffering badly with depression, I was under a surgery run by husband and wife doctors. First I saw the husband who was very cold and just wanted to put me on medication. Then I saw his wife and OMG.... how did she ever become a doctor?! Rather than want to know what was wrong with me she'd spend 20 mins to 1/2 hour each time I went telling me about her terrible life (it was pretty bad) and how she wanted kids but her previous husband didn't but then he cheated on her, left her and had a baby with this other woman. Then their baby was all over the newspapers on New Years day of 2000 as the Mellenium (spelling?) baby. She did this with many of her patients.

LOL maybe its a husband/wife thing because both of my doctors are husband and wife