Christine1993
Full-time mummy to Aidan
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ive been with my boyfriend now for nearly nine months..we had only been together 3 months when i fell pregnant. hes so amazing and has always been there for me through the past few months. but today, i have really started to get thinking. im only 16 and have just finished college so i have no source of income but i do have my savings. my mum has been amazing and has bought me and baby so much stuff and i hope to pay her back for everything. ive also bought lots of stuff with my savings. but my boyfriend really isnt pulling his weight and he's wanting to spend his money on laptops and phones and clothes for himself etc instead of buying stuff for his house and i think hes expecting me and my mum to buy everything. he has a good job and earns a good amount of money but no hes still saying his laptop and that is more of a 'priority' which is bull. another thing that is bothering me is that as i have no income just now its hard for me to afford buses to go and see him when its 3 pound a journey. he has an unlimited months bus pass so theres no stopping him coming round to see me but no he either 'has other stuff to do' or cant be bothered. so ive been thinking why should i be bothered to spend 6 pound to go and see him everyday (2 buses id need to get) when he can basically come and see me for nothing? i know im rambling on a bit so sorry im getting really boring haha i just wanted to see what other people thought. i dont think he understands aswel that IM the pregnant one, not him. im the one whos feeling tired most of the time and sore. know what i mean? any advice or comments are welcome just to see what all you other ladies thought thanks xxx