What to expect?

[Mousers]

Had my dating scan today instead of a happy day I was told it had stopped growing and had no heart beat at 9 weeks (lmd July 4)
Now I'm just playing the waiting game for the cramps and such to start.

Is it sad I'm still holding on to a vain hope that they were wrong?
Can anyone tell me any info on what to expect? They only told me blood and tissue but my last misscarrage I also had what I think was the placenta come out... And I was "early on" in that pregnacy (Sorry for tmi)

 

[LifeAfterDepo]

It's not sad. When my nurse called me to say my HCG dropped to 85, I'm a RN and I still had to ask her if this was the end, just to hear her say it.
Your heart is broken, it is okay to grieve the loss.

I feel comfortable on this board knowing other women understand. No one really understands how you can love something you never held except another woman who is mourning the same loss.

Denial is a stage of grieving.

 

[celine]

I had denial too going thru my second mc in the last threemnths, waiting for bleeding and cramping. With my june mc the mw said it will be more bleeding that a period, i had bad cramps for the one night but when i passed the sac etc i didnt even feel it, i was surprised when i went to the loo and saw it on my pad.

Good luck, grieve and cry all you need xxx

 

[LifeAfterDepo]

I'm just waiting for the moment you just described. I need the closure so bad.