What was the first thing....

[ayshahudson]

I can't remember saying anything coz i was crying so much!

 

[the_hug]

I think i said something along the lines of "We didn't have an ugly baby!" to my husband

 

[Whisper]

I don't remember

 

[Deise]

"OMG! She has hair!!"

 

[TashaAndBump]

Haha some of these are so funny

I had split thoughts...

In between thinking, "She's so beautiful and tiny", my predominant thought was, "What's wrong with her?", and that's all I could say

After she had been resuscitated though, we all got to hold her for a few seconds before they took her to SCBU, and when I cuddled her after that, Dominic looked at her, then looked at me and asked, "Anna?", and he was right - she was an Anna, so the first thing I said to her was, "Anna " I was so tired and confused and worried for her that I couldn't really say much else....

 

[Belle]

I literally only jst got into the hospital when she came out and i was expecting a BIG baby, when she came out and was placed on me, she was tiny i said, OMG she's tiny, then said to James she can't be ours!
Must have been the gas and air!!

 

[Belle]

I don't know why I read this thread, *bangs head off desk*...

The things you've all said are so lovely

I didn't get to say anything to my daughter before she died, but I talk to her all the time now at her grave so I don't think she minds much...


Watch this space, one day I'll have another and I will post what Ive said when I talk to my baby lol

Sarah's thats so beautiful!!
And when your talking to her she'll be looking down on u smiling at her fabulous mummy who she knows loves her more than anything!!
Ur such a strong person.

hope ur ok. xx

 

[Donna79x]

Hello my little princess, I'm you mummy, then I carried on booing ! lol xxxxxx

 

[Tegans Mama]

Tegan was born by c section and I only got to see her for 2 minutes before she was taken to the childrens hospital for her op, and I didn't see her again for 2 days. I didn't speak a single word to her but I was crying my heart out - My c-section went wrong (big baby, small cut = tear, epi wore out so felt everything, my BP dropped, pulse dropped to about 10bpm, almost passed out) and I just saw her, saw how dark her eyes were and how her head was a funny shape! She had a little pink hat on and looked so gorgeous, like a mini me.

The next time I saw her, she was two days old, on her front and her back was covered in bandages. I was so scared for her, the entire time I was away from her all I could think was that I needed to know she is ok, I was phoning the ward she was on every hour. The first thing I said to her was 'hello, baby' and I say that to her a lot now. I also her my tiggy doo

 

[Zarababy1]

i thought "bloody hell hes massive!" then i said "hello im ur mammy!" and kissed him...he had blood and poo on him as well

 

[Alexas Mommy]

The first thing I said was "I love you so much, you are so beautiful" Ah, bringing back the memory
oh, and my first thought was "where is her chin her cheeks were so swollen she barely had a chin Of course many things were going through my mind, but this one sticks out!!

 

[MummyToAmberx]

mine was ... 'well, hello'

 

[bambino]

i said ' hello sunshine, it's your mummy'...... the most amazing feeling ever to say that for the first time

 

[isil]

I can't remember

I can't remember either. It's made me quite upset actually but I just can't remember anything really until we were moved to the ward.

 

[charliebear]

Its all a bit of a blur

I remember....saying 'wow, look what we made!' to OH and asking 'is he alright?' to all 6 staff in the room with us!! I'm sure there was a 'hello' to baby in there somewhere.

 

[Uvlollypop]

with my still born baby i said 'oh my god you look like my brother' followed by 'shes massive and would have ripped me in two if she had gone full term'

hopefully this baby will be here anyday so ill come back and let you know what i said then!

 

[clairebear]

uv hope u dont have to long to wait now x x happy due date x