Ladies... I really need some advice!
We've been trying for #2 for 19 months. We have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility, and despite the fact that I ovulate normally on my own, I started Clomid 50 mg this cycle. I really thought this would be our lucky month... but I'm feeling 100% discouraged at the constant let down and really don't know if I can continue. We have not had one single BFP since we started.
We've learned that my hubby will be going abroad in 9-10 months, and will be gone for one year. I desperately want him to bond with this new child, as he was gone with our daughter for nearly all of the first two years of her life. However, after everything we've been through it's time to get a referral for an RE. Stopping for that amount of time will pretty much put us right back to square one. Not to mention adding that extra year to our aging bodies. Beyond that, my hubby will take this as a sign that we are too old to try again and will most likely put a stop to it completely (he can be rather pessimistic when things don't go his way)... despite the fact that he desperately wants another child.
What would you do in this situation? I already plan to talk to him about it (he's in the field for the next week), so please don't suggest that. I'm hoping one of you ladies will direct me toward a path that I haven't already thought about. I'm worried I'm not being objective enough.... so maybe someone can provide some third party insight. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this lengthy post....
We've been trying for #2 for 19 months. We have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility, and despite the fact that I ovulate normally on my own, I started Clomid 50 mg this cycle. I really thought this would be our lucky month... but I'm feeling 100% discouraged at the constant let down and really don't know if I can continue. We have not had one single BFP since we started.
We've learned that my hubby will be going abroad in 9-10 months, and will be gone for one year. I desperately want him to bond with this new child, as he was gone with our daughter for nearly all of the first two years of her life. However, after everything we've been through it's time to get a referral for an RE. Stopping for that amount of time will pretty much put us right back to square one. Not to mention adding that extra year to our aging bodies. Beyond that, my hubby will take this as a sign that we are too old to try again and will most likely put a stop to it completely (he can be rather pessimistic when things don't go his way)... despite the fact that he desperately wants another child.
What would you do in this situation? I already plan to talk to him about it (he's in the field for the next week), so please don't suggest that. I'm hoping one of you ladies will direct me toward a path that I haven't already thought about. I'm worried I'm not being objective enough.... so maybe someone can provide some third party insight. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this lengthy post....