Helen397
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Hi Everyone,
This is my dilema so what would you do in your opinion.
I am 35 next month so I feel that the clock is really ticking away and I cant stop thinking about having a child.
I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and life is good but .........
he has a 13 year old son and the thought of another child / responsibility scares him to death as he left his son as his previous relationship was horrid which was the worst decision of his life, he now feels that if another child was bought into the world things would go wrong and he would have to leave or to that affect.
I feel myself trying to convince him of all the good things about having a child but i'm nearly ready to give up as I should'nt be having to convince him to have a baby should i?
So i'm now thinking do I stay patient as he might change his mind as he said he wants a child with me or start thinking about leaving him to start a family with someone who REALLY wants to?
What would you do?
Lots of love
Helen XXX
This is my dilema so what would you do in your opinion.
I am 35 next month so I feel that the clock is really ticking away and I cant stop thinking about having a child.
I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and life is good but .........
he has a 13 year old son and the thought of another child / responsibility scares him to death as he left his son as his previous relationship was horrid which was the worst decision of his life, he now feels that if another child was bought into the world things would go wrong and he would have to leave or to that affect.
I feel myself trying to convince him of all the good things about having a child but i'm nearly ready to give up as I should'nt be having to convince him to have a baby should i?
So i'm now thinking do I stay patient as he might change his mind as he said he wants a child with me or start thinking about leaving him to start a family with someone who REALLY wants to?
What would you do?
Lots of love
Helen XXX