Laylagirl
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I will be 38 weeks on Saturday. Not that it makes a difference, but my last baby came at 38+5.
The nesting urge has yet to be seen. I have zero desire to do anything for baby. I have not washed his clothes, I have not packed my bag, I have not set up his crib, I have not gotten his car seat set up or installed, I'm just really unprepared for his birth. I've done laundry and washed dishes. I just don't have the urge to get ready for the baby. Somehow I feel as though I have time. I know a lot has to do with my current situation. I am in a custody battle with my ex... I have mediation on November 17... My current husband is doing his own thing with other women from work... We have been having problems for a while now.. And I think I don't feel like doing anything because I don't want to be in this house with him. So part of me feels as though if I do wash babys clothes, or set up his bed, my husband will think I'm not leaving. And im so tired of living here with him. I want to move out as soon as my body is healed after birth. I'm very unhappy. I have no support system. I have been doing everything on my own and I really am starting to resent living here. However, I still need to take care of things for the baby... I don't know if it's just the nesting urge hasn't kicked in and I still have time? Maybe he will be late anyway.. Or is it just because of my situation here that blocks the urge? I don't know ladies... I just don't know what to do, or how to start. I'm miserable and I know I am the only one who can get these things done..
The nesting urge has yet to be seen. I have zero desire to do anything for baby. I have not washed his clothes, I have not packed my bag, I have not set up his crib, I have not gotten his car seat set up or installed, I'm just really unprepared for his birth. I've done laundry and washed dishes. I just don't have the urge to get ready for the baby. Somehow I feel as though I have time. I know a lot has to do with my current situation. I am in a custody battle with my ex... I have mediation on November 17... My current husband is doing his own thing with other women from work... We have been having problems for a while now.. And I think I don't feel like doing anything because I don't want to be in this house with him. So part of me feels as though if I do wash babys clothes, or set up his bed, my husband will think I'm not leaving. And im so tired of living here with him. I want to move out as soon as my body is healed after birth. I'm very unhappy. I have no support system. I have been doing everything on my own and I really am starting to resent living here. However, I still need to take care of things for the baby... I don't know if it's just the nesting urge hasn't kicked in and I still have time? Maybe he will be late anyway.. Or is it just because of my situation here that blocks the urge? I don't know ladies... I just don't know what to do, or how to start. I'm miserable and I know I am the only one who can get these things done..