What's wrong with me?!

[doublemiracle]

I'm having a really hard time. I so miss being pregnant, I think it's cause I wasn't able to really enjoy it due to the fact I was worrying the whole time. I had a high risk twin pregnancy and all I was focused on is getting them out healthy. I miss their little kicks and I even miss the long doctors appointments. It's almost been a month since they were born and I was just wondering if anyone else has had this? If so, how long did it take to get over? I feel so weird because I'm so happy that they are here and healthy. Why am I sad when they're here?! What's wrong with me!?

 

[Blondie2008]

Hay hun - its SO hard after being pregnant for so long! I was the same as you. Really missed being pregnant and having everyone take extra good care of me. And then suddenly i was the one who had to take take of this little baby.

I still feel quite sad that i didn't really enjoy my pregnancy more. Especially because we don't want any more kids. I keep saying to my husband that the sad thing about that is i will never be pregnant again - i really don't mind about not raising another child but would like to go through pregnancy again.

There is nothing wrong with you. There have been many posts on here form people saying they miss their bumps. You will get passed it though - just takes a bit of time.

xx

 

[Starbucket]

I miss my bump all the time! There is something so amazing about carrying a life inside of you.... like you, i spent the majority of my time worrying and being so worked up about every detail....that I didnt just enjoy every moment of it. I love my baby girl but I miss those moments that were purely just her and me! Now I feel like I share her with the world......

I look forward to being pregnant again soon!!

 

[Ellie130891]

me too i felt sick 24.7 but miss eating n sleeping whenever i wanted and loved my curvy bod. been v ill since the birth constantly exhausted, i love my baby but i cry over my lost bump

 

[twinklestar]

totally normal hun, i agree with the other lovely girls,

the hormone rush after birth dont help either, it will get easier x

 

[Justagirlxx]

God I am so happy not to be pregnant anymore. Just focus on all the good things about it.. being able to bend over, walk up stairs without getting winded, hug someone properly without having to bend over funny, having a flat stomach again, being able to breathe, not getting kicked in the ribs all the time, etc etc etc lol

 

[Hales1]

I totally understand how you feel Hun I am just the same. I used to look in the mirror at my bump and even knew then that I was going to miss it. Sometimes I worry that it's the attention from others that I miss but deep down I think it's just that indescribable special feeling you have when pregnant. Also I felt happy with my body when pregnant ! Sometimes I even feel jealous of friends with bump even though lime u I am glad to have my boy here

The thing I think about to make me feel better is how I felt at 34 weeks when I fell over. I cried and said "I just want him out now so I know he's ok" thinking back to that time makes me happy that he's here where I can control things more to make sure he's ok