mamawanabe21
Pregnant with #2
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So I dont feel like Im bonding with this baby at all. With my daughter, by now, I was super excited and would talk to her, sing to her, write in a journal for her etc. With this baby I feel like Im not....excited/interested I guess.
I feel like Im just waiting for something to go wrong. Ive had two scans already because of suspected ectopic, and usual 12 week scan. I felt relieved everything was as it should be, but thats about it. Took 32months to conceive this rainbow baby (3 losses in that time) so I dont understand it.
Had midwife today, and took her a few minutes to find the heartbeat, and I didnt even panic, just figured the baby had died and it was bound to happen. I cant talk to my husband about this because he wouldnt understand, and I had my very excited daughter with me so I didnt mention it to Mw today.
Is it normal to not bond yet? I dunno why I feel so unconnected and indifferent.
I feel like Im just waiting for something to go wrong. Ive had two scans already because of suspected ectopic, and usual 12 week scan. I felt relieved everything was as it should be, but thats about it. Took 32months to conceive this rainbow baby (3 losses in that time) so I dont understand it.
Had midwife today, and took her a few minutes to find the heartbeat, and I didnt even panic, just figured the baby had died and it was bound to happen. I cant talk to my husband about this because he wouldnt understand, and I had my very excited daughter with me so I didnt mention it to Mw today.
Is it normal to not bond yet? I dunno why I feel so unconnected and indifferent.