When do you feel safe?

[Vickieh1981]

I said right from the start that getting pregnant was just the first step and then the hard part began.

I need to get past the stage I lost Isabella too which unfortunately wasn't very early so I still have a fair way to go.

It's killing me tbh. I had a scan on Monday and all was fine but within a couple of days I was worrying again

 

[maaybe2010]

I don't blame anyone for wanting to keep their PG a secret from everyone, especially ppl who aren't immediate family. I've half debated about keeping it a secret from my OH until I had blood work confirmation from the OB but I feel that any length of time after that would be unfair to your OH. You run the risk of hurting his feelings or even pissing him off for not sharing something that he contributed to. Something to consider.

I know what you mean, if he missed our first scan and everything was ok he'd be gutted. . . .
We'll see what happens if the time ever comes.


xx