We had decided that we was going to wait untill 12w & after the scan but I have said I think it would be nice to tell his nana on christmas day when we go out for our lunch. His nana (and grandad who dies two years ago) pratically brought him & his sister up. She has a form of dementia & is kinda giving up on life, not eating etc & i thought this might give her something to live for. I said if we well his family on christmas day then i would like to tell mine to. We thought about it a bit but we still havent decided just yet, on christmas day i will still oly be 9 weeks.
I am a little nervous about telling my family, I know they will be over the moon but my mum really wanted me to get married first & this is kinda gona put that to bed for a while. I work with my sister. we have worked together for years but the comapny we worked for went in to liquidation & the new company we both work for we have only been employed for a month & its really not exactly the right time especially for me as i wont get full meternity pay.
but i never planned this, we wernt ttc & things just happen for a reason.