This is a tough one for me ... i temporarily split from my partner of 14 years last November. In April we got back together and we have now just split up again (he has been a right so and so - as you will see if you have seen my others posts!). Anyway, people at work knew that i split up with him in November and some of the closers ones do know we got back together and some of them don't.
My worry is that the ones that dont know i got back with him, are going to be gossiping sayings "whos the father then" and then the others that do know i got back with him are going to be saying "congratulations how does OH feel about it" coz i havent told them we have split up again (only happened at the weekend) Unfortunately my OH has messed me about quite abit in the past and this is why i don't tell everyone what is happening with us, coz things can change around 180 degrees overnight ! However, after saying he wants nothing to do with me or the baby - i am giving him no more 2nd chances !
(sorry for long post)
i work in a very very large office so thats why some people know and some people dont. I guess what i am worried about is people gossiping about me etc ... and i really dont know whether to say it is OH's but since the news we have split up ? its giving me a headache !
What did all you other single girls out there say ?
My worry is that the ones that dont know i got back with him, are going to be gossiping sayings "whos the father then" and then the others that do know i got back with him are going to be saying "congratulations how does OH feel about it" coz i havent told them we have split up again (only happened at the weekend) Unfortunately my OH has messed me about quite abit in the past and this is why i don't tell everyone what is happening with us, coz things can change around 180 degrees overnight ! However, after saying he wants nothing to do with me or the baby - i am giving him no more 2nd chances !
(sorry for long post)
i work in a very very large office so thats why some people know and some people dont. I guess what i am worried about is people gossiping about me etc ... and i really dont know whether to say it is OH's but since the news we have split up ? its giving me a headache !

What did all you other single girls out there say ?