When will it be my turn?!

[Junebug1983]

Hi everyone

Im having a very low day today

Im 28 (almost 29) and my husband and I have been ttc for 3 years. After having numerous test on myself and SA for OH we have been told that OH has low morphology, really good count, fast and going in the right direction. All kind of ok I suppose except the low morphology bit! I on the other hand am a lot more confusing, I ovulate every month, regular 32 day cycle but the docs arnt sure if I work on the right side or not. I had an ultrasound that shown possible polycystic ovarie to the right but had to have bloods to double check, bloods came back normal and also showed that ovulation had taken place. Now im just confused if I work or not on the right side! I dont get any straight answers about anything form my doc or the fertility doc! My doc said to just carry on as we are. I cant have any more treatment now until Im 30 ( so next year) as these are the PCT rules in my area!

Every month comes and I try to not think about it any more as I did get a little crazy symptom spotting in the past! So many people announcing their pregnancy's latley and Im still here, 3 years later. Sorry for the major whine but need to let it all out!

 

[mjemma]

Don't apologise, let it all out! It sucks and it's not fair. xx

 

[wannabemummyb]

Sorry to hear you are feeling low hun it gets us all down from time to time! Can't believe you can't get treatment till your 30! it seems that there always seems to be some excuse not to treat: too old, too young, too fat, too thin!

Fx for you huni x

 

[heavenly]

Sorry to hear you are feeling low hun it gets us all down from time to time! Can't believe you can't get treatment till your 30! it seems that there always seems to be some excuse not to treat: too old, too young, too fat, too thin!

Fx for you huni x

Ain't that the truth, my tests are costing a fortune!!

Junebug - vent as much as you want, that's what we are here for!!

 

[susan_1981]

Awww I totally feel your pain. I initially fell pregnant relatively quickly but sadly miscarried. It took me 3 years to get as far along as I am now. My husband has a lowish sperm count but the month we conceived this time, I used lots of pre-seed and had sex for 5 days running over my fertile time. Hope your bfp is just around the corner cos I know how awful it is, every month seeing your period and just hoping its just implantation bleeding xxx

 

[theclarks8687]

Just remember you aren't alone, there are lots if us out there feeling that way.

 

[CryHer]

You're not alone. At least it's not like you can't have any, it's not God's timing. When you finally do get your baby, it will be worth all the hardache. Keep your chin up.

 

[Junebug1983]

Thanks everyone! Feeling a lot better today. I dont often let it bother me but yesterday was a bad day! I do always think to myself that its just not my time yet, when it happens it will be the best thing ever.
I cant believe the stupid rules now, I was a month away from being referred for IUI/IVF treatment and they held my appointment off and then said, oh sorry not til you are 30 now, new rules! Oh well, just gotta keep going I suppose!

susan_1981 - Congratulations, hope it is all going well for you?

 

[valerie1708]

Hey June,

I am pretty much in the same boat. I am 27, DH is 38 been trying for a little over 3 years now and still nothing! I do have PCOS though. Sometimes I feel like it will never happen ... but then there is a little bit of hope still lingering somewhere.

We're allowed to have "low days" ... there is nothing wrong in venting and getting a little sympathy

 

[mrsp1969]

Hi everyone

Im having a very low day today

Im 28 (almost 29) and my husband and I have been ttc for 3 years. After having numerous test on myself and SA for OH we have been told that OH has low morphology, really good count, fast and going in the right direction. All kind of ok I suppose except the low morphology bit! I on the other hand am a lot more confusing, I ovulate every month, regular 32 day cycle but the docs arnt sure if I work on the right side or not. I had an ultrasound that shown possible polycystic ovarie to the right but had to have bloods to double check, bloods came back normal and also showed that ovulation had taken place. Now im just confused if I work or not on the right side! I dont get any straight answers about anything form my doc or the fertility doc! My doc said to just carry on as we are. I cant have any more treatment now until Im 30 ( so next year) as these are the PCT rules in my area!

Every month comes and I try to not think about it any more as I did get a little crazy symptom spotting in the past! So many people announcing their pregnancy's latley and Im still here, 3 years later. Sorry for the major whine but need to let it all out!

hi junebug ifeel for you im the same cycle 18 for me next its so hard when every1 else gets there bfp seen so many over the last 18 months xx

 

[lian_83]

Ditto..

I've been TTC#1 for 3 years now. Had a polyp removed last January, this is my 2nd cycle trying after surgery.. I don't know if it will ever happen for me.