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Ceejay123
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I posted in here a week and a half ago, my cat had been poisoned and had died. Bless her soul.
Well, people keep asking me when I'm getting another cat, and I keep saying not for a while as my cat meant a lot to me and I don't want I simply replace her. On top of that because of my worry, any cat I have will mainly have to be indoor.
For the last few days I've been questioning things, as I feel awful for my son. He loved her, 'cat' was one of his main, and first words. He calls everything a cat if he wants it! Anyway, he keeps running up to the French doors, shouting outside 'cat, cat' and crying.
A couple of days ago, he saw the neighbours cat on the driveway, and I had to stand there for fifteen minutes while he cuddled him!
I will have another cat at some point, I've always had them, and they're always well loved, good natured cats because of the amount of attention they receive. But I don't know whether to get a cat soon.. So that it can grow up with / bond with Riley (pretty much be his cat) and to stop his grief over jolenes passing.. Or whether to wait a couple of years because I feel guilty even contemplating it after the passing of our cat.
Well, people keep asking me when I'm getting another cat, and I keep saying not for a while as my cat meant a lot to me and I don't want I simply replace her. On top of that because of my worry, any cat I have will mainly have to be indoor.
For the last few days I've been questioning things, as I feel awful for my son. He loved her, 'cat' was one of his main, and first words. He calls everything a cat if he wants it! Anyway, he keeps running up to the French doors, shouting outside 'cat, cat' and crying.
A couple of days ago, he saw the neighbours cat on the driveway, and I had to stand there for fifteen minutes while he cuddled him!
I will have another cat at some point, I've always had them, and they're always well loved, good natured cats because of the amount of attention they receive. But I don't know whether to get a cat soon.. So that it can grow up with / bond with Riley (pretty much be his cat) and to stop his grief over jolenes passing.. Or whether to wait a couple of years because I feel guilty even contemplating it after the passing of our cat.
she was 17, the vetreny nurse who was with them rang up a week later and explained she fostered cats and they had some kittens and if we were thinking of getting another cat would we like to see them-I immediately said no we didn't, the following weekend we rang her back and went to see them they were lovely there was also a feral cat 6 months old that had been with them for 9 weeks which no one wanted, guess which one we had! Yep the feral one, she is now 5 and is no where near a lap cat, but has a scatty character and is lovely. She is Topsy my screen name 
don't rush into anything, you know you're going to get one eventually so i would wait until you feel ready! i think it would be a month or two before i could face it but not sure i could leave it much longer because my flat would feel so empty. 
