When you were pregnant, did you...

[mamashakesit]

want your baby so much you got depressed?

With all the BS my ex is putting me through (i.e. the cheating, the lying, the flaking over the baby), I think I just want the payoff now...I want the baby so bad I almost miss it without ever having seen it.

Things have just gotten so bad between the two of us and all I can think of is that all that this guy has put me through is going to be worth it in the end.

 

[Laura2919]

Aww Hun. You are under some pressure from everything you have been through and going through and I think its about your child being the one person who is going to love you and treat you right as such!
I think you will be ok. You still have a while to go and try to enjoy it. I had Chloe and Jaycee at 29 weeks and you dont need added troubles..

 

[Welshcob]

Honey, sounds rough, but if it gives you hope I was a mess through my pregnancy and being on this site talking to my cyber friends got me through it. Lean on us!!! I used to worry that I was damaging my baby with all the crying I was doing. Doing what you are, focussing on how amazing your LO is will get you through! they really are worth every second!!! sending you a big

 

[sciencemum]

Love, i know exactly how i feel.
I have 10 weeks to go and time just seems to be dragging and I feel so low, i just want baby here so i can try get on with things instead of just being stuck like this.

Everyone says it will all be better once the baby is here.... but it seems so far way and such a long time to wait for things to be better