When your teenager says..........

[Akira]

If she were mine...

No phone
No internet
No games
No Ipod etc

and assuming that you were the one that bought her the stuff...if she carred on I'd sell them.

Stuff doing her washing if she cant bring it to the laundry. She can stink and get teased....why should you care?

If shes going to slam her door I'd be all for taking it off. If your worried about her privacy hang a sheet over the door frame

 

[MartaMi]

My first thought is to do the same to her. Do it all back. At first ask her to do something, if she says no then for example next lunch, dinner etc don't let her eat what you made. Tell her to make her own. Same with washing her chlothes, giving money, helping, taking her with you somewhere. If she won't listen to you I wouldn't listen to her either. Never mind what she wants, I wouldn't give a damn.

Don't give her back her stuff and don't give up. Eventually she will broke and wants to get back to normal. Hang in there