I'll hopefully be having my dad but he's very ill atm and may need a major operation before the wedding so there's a possibility that either he wont make it thru the op, or he'll be too sick/weak to come all the way from Wales My mum died 6 years ago and my only sibling (my brother) died just over 5 years ago and I'm not overly close to any other people in my extended family, but I'll probably ask my Aunt on my mum's side as I've stayed in touch with her thru the years.