who knew?

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by miel, Oct 21, 2008.

  1. miel

    miel Married to an amazing guy

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    that trying to conceive will be so tiring ! challenging! sexallenging!!! consuming !!!
    what else?
     
  2. Chris77

    Chris77 Mommy to PJ and Gavin

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    it's sucking! :rofl:
     
  3. JJF

    JJF Finished at 3

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    Emotional and Stressful!!!!
     
  4. Suz

    Suz ~ I are a Nerd ~

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    You spend your entire life growin up with the Fear of god in you that if you even look at a boy your going to get pregnant and then when you really want to... Well it doesnt happen :hissy:

    Its so frusteration that I gave up along time ago.... I just go with the flow and well if it happens it happens... Dont even test. I just wait for the :witch: to get me :(
     
  5. superp123

    superp123 Super Auntie to 3 + 1

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  6. honey08

    honey08 mum2two boys/2mc

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    the cost !! opk,hpt,presseed,fertilitymonitor(sticks2put in it),insteadcups,vits n folic acid ...on n on n on lol
     
  7. bebe

    bebe Well-Known Member

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    Who knew it could occupy my thoughts for so much of the time!
     
  8. Peanut78

    Peanut78 Mum of 2

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    Totally! I live my late teens and early twenties in fear of unexpected pregnancy - only to find my late twenties and now early thirties living in fear of not being able to concieve.

    Also had no idea of how all-consuming it becomes.... I generally don't feel "stressed" per se from it all, but do find that it is on my mind alot - actually feel a bit confused by it all.... Am hoping for a sense of clarity any day soon!

    :hug:
     
  9. Reedy

    Reedy Outnumbered x

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    Emotionally draining :cry:
    I know its only my 2nd cycle but when you have a sister who concieved both her daughters as soon as they started trying its hard not to wonder why your not the same & that something must be wrong :cry:
     
  10. Sinead

    Sinead Well-Known Member

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    Who knew that ttc would be about keeping pee in the fridge (for cbfm trial) and getting your lady garden out for perfect strangers!!!!!:rofl: All in the name of science!!!!!
     
  11. Puddleduck

    Puddleduck Pregnant with #1

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    I am with Reedy on this one..... emotionally draining !!!! the feeling of hopelessness.

    Why is it taking so long to conceive when every one around you is falling pregnant and "wasnt even trying" God I hate it when people say this ................:hissy:

    :hugs:
     
  12. littlemorag

    littlemorag stopped counting.

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    who knew I would be this glad to hear about mine and other ladies' EWCM, CP and BD'ing!
    Who knew I would be this crazy with it all - I am usually a chilled out to the max person!
    Who knew there was this much excellent support to help you through it all and help you laugh about it!

    Cheers you guys

    Moragx:hugs:
     
  13. Ju_bubbs

    Ju_bubbs Proud single Mummy of 5!

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    Just thought I'd say... sucking wont get you pregnant :rofl:

    Joking aside tho... when we first decided to try, I had no idea how much it would take over our lives.. all I ever seem to be doing is poas, either opk or hpt, taking my temp, analyzing charts and the calender :hissy: and I must say its all B&B's fault!!!!! I would never have even known about all this charting and temping stuff if I didn't find B&B:rofl:
     
  14. moomoo

    moomoo Mumma to 2 & 1 in heaven!

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    Hahaha!! Sore?! hehehe :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  15. Jolinar

    Jolinar Mummy to Nic

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    Driving yourself nuts with the fact that early PG symptoms are virtually identical to AF being on the way. *sigh*:dohh:
     
  16. babytots

    babytots Well-Known Member

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    obbsessive! when ttc dd1 i didnt have the good old tinternet so we did everything narturally and let nature take its course. when i was ttc dd2 we had interent and i got so obbessed by everything and now ttc our 5th baby (3rd healthy take home one i hope) i'm worse then ever.

    although suprised myself this month as i'm pretty chilled on the 2ww so far! x
     
  17. miel

    miel Married to an amazing guy

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    who knew i was going jaleous of bigger bellies then mine?:)
     
  18. geogem

    geogem PREGNANT!!!

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    Yeah but has anybody lay in bed after BD thinking come on little swimmers!!! thats when you know you are going mad!!
    This was me last night - then I realised how sad this was and yet reverted back to thinking it!! I just cant help myself!!
     
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    jaytee Well-Known Member

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    AMEN!!!!

    as a pastors daughter I feared every doing anything sexual until I got married with the fear of getting pregnant! But here I am 9 months later and s till nothing!

    Discouraging!
     
  20. chefamy1122

    chefamy1122 hating infertility

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    emotionally draining.....mentally exhausting...depressing...
     

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