IVF is quite a long process. You'll have hormone profiles carried out prior to treatment and other blood tests to ensure you have no blood disorders/diseases. Once you get the all clear your IVF cycle starts, timing depends on your drug regime (there are a few different ones). Usually it starts with Down Regulation on cycle day 21. This is done to suppress the function of the pituitary gland in the brain - it is this gland that affects hormone production. You will have a scan approx 2 - 3 weeks after starting down regulation. Down regulation can be either a daily injection, tablet, or nasal spray. Once you've had your scan to confirm nothing is happening in your ovaries and the lining of your womb is pretty much non-existant you will get the go ahead from the consultant to start stimulating. I believe this can only be done by injection, and depending on your drug regime, will be done at the same time as your down regulating injection. You will then have a tracking scan a week later, and then another one approx 4 -5 days after that. Your consultant will then schedule you in for egg collection and instruct you as to the date and time of your HCG booster injection - this is taken 36 hours before your egg collection, and causes your follicles to mature their eggs.
On the day of egg collection, your OH will be required to give a semen sample, unless you are using frozen sperm, and you will then be prepped for theatre. You'll most likely be sedated although sedation levels seem to vary from one clinic to another. During egg collection a small needle is guided by ultrasound into each follicle and drains all the fluid and any eggs out of the follicles. It is not necessarily the case that every follicle will contain an egg. Once all the follicles have been drained you will be woken up and taken to recovery where you will get the nicest cup of tea and slice of toast you have tasted in what seems like years... You will be told how many eggs were collected and what time the clinic will phone with a fertilisation report the next day. You can then go home - although you will be unable to drive yourself for at least another 24 hours.
The next couple of days are definitely very tough, as you wait for updates on fertilisation, embryo development, and whether you are going to make it to embryo transfer. Embryo transfer isn't too bad - just like a smear but a bit more exciting. They use a specula to open you up

and then a very small catheter is used to insert your embryos high into the uterus. Then it's just a waiting game. I'm not a particularly patient person, so this bit isn't fun.
I was told that bed rest wasn't necessary but to take it easy for a couple of weeks after embryo transfer - and by that they meant no heavy lifting, swimming, saunas, aerobics, that sort of thing. Happy days - a fortnight of no lifting the hoover up the stairs, and no carry the washing round the house - woohoo!!
Don't be scared of IVF - I know it's not how any of us visualised conceiving our children, but it's not that bad - well my experience of it so far has been pretty positive. I'm currently waiting to find out if we are pregnant or not. I don't feel particularly positive about the final outcome, but I do feel that the treatment was successful. What I'm trying to say is that even if we get a negative this time, we were able to get as far as we did, and nature just wasn't on our side this time. Some couples who had egg collection the day after me, unfortunately didn't make it to embryo transfer. So we count ourselves as lucky, and are keeping our fingers crossed that our luck continues.
If you need any more detail let me know and I'll be a bit more graphic if you want
