So, here goes the rant!!! So my ex sees my LO every weekend, and thinks he's father of the year material, honestly believes that he puts LO first at all times, however every now and again (when the notion takes him) he will blow a situation out of all control and then go on to make me the bad guy. This week my ex was to have LO for weekend, which was fine and arranged, and phoned earlier and happened to say that was planning on swimmers tomorrow. I told him that LO has cold, nose running, temperature, and as he has Asthma, I would rather he didn't go to swimmers as didn't want to chance his Asthma getting aggravated. He went completely ballistic, saying that its not up to me to decide this, that I can't lay down law to him, he'll do as he wants, that swimming was arranged and that was it. I said was not happy with swimming, and so he hung up, and when I rang back wouldn't answer. Finally, got him back on phone and explained my worries to him, he became abusive so told him that if I couldn't trust him to do right thing for his health then forget it. He has been bombarding me with txts and calls ever since, saying that I'm a bad mother who doesn't put my childs feelings first and am just being a vindictive b#####. Why do I always have to be the bad one? I am only doing what is best for LO wellbeing. In the last year I have been to hospital with him so many times during night with Asthma related problems and all I was asking was that he found something else to do with LO other than swimming for 1 week!!!