Why am i and my other half in pain everytime we make love?!

[LaDY]

Hey ladies...something strange is going on. Please xcuse the graphic details...Everytime i have made love to my partner since being pregnant its been hell. He finds it so difficult to get in as he says i am always so dry...and once he is in i feel like someone is stabbing a knife up me and hes in so much pain that he cant carry on!...whats going on!?

 

[ablaze]

it sounds like hes not arousing you enough hun, maybe try sum lubricant

 

[Samantha675]

I have also noticed that I am way way way more sensitive since I have become pregnant, and not in a good way.

 

[yumumleelou]

foreplay takes longer but i seem to be getting wetter than usual but very sensitive. lube up and have fun!

 

[Iwantone!!!]

gets some lube babe or get him to tease u ore to get u wetter

 

[miel]

i think you may want to check with your doctor. there is a difference between uncomfortable and feeling like being stabb.
they may give you advice on different positions you can use

 

[Tilly]

I agree,lube or play with each other a bit more before intercourse, it makes a big difference. Plus maybe your needs have changed with pregnancy (I mean sexually) so communicate those needs to him so he can turn you on more.

 

[duejan19th]

im having the same probs with sex but only since iv been in the third tri, me and OH bought some lube and it does help a bit but iv noticed that if we foreplay for a bit longer it does help, now i get the pain more after sex, i feel swollen and sore, apparently its due to an increased blood flow down there which can make things a bit harder and more sensitive, me and OH havent had sex for nearly a month coz i dread the pain during and after and it just puts me off the mood, hope things get better for you hun x