Why are men so bloody stupid

[Oneday]

Sorry i just have to vent
We have 1 child, a result of 5 pregnancies, 3 were m/c's and 1 was a ruptured ectopic (right tube was sealed) I have nurmerous adhesions (scars) which r stopping me concieving and am hoping for surgery to remove these if this fails the next step is IVF.

So i am dumfounded and hurt when Claire in corrie wants Ashley to have the snip and my Hubby says to me "Don't be getting any ideas?" WTF
I said well i am virtually sterile. Then a few minutes later i said I can't believe you said the he gets defensive and tells me not to start an argument!

 

[obe]

Men are silly sods sometimes!
I fell out with my OH after watching Eastenders a while back - someone had broken the news of being pregnant (cant remember who) and my OH said ' hes already a dad' which upset me as we are trying for our first while my OH already has children.
They dont get it hun!

 

[oliveoyl]

Hugs!
Sounds like he really didn't think before he made a fippant comment.
It still hurts though xx

 

[Oneday]

Thanks girls x He said it was just a one liner I think he was suprised at my reaction but I made me feel like we're not on the same page. He ended up sleeping in the spare room. But i don't see why I am the vilian for being hurt by something insensitive all I wanted was a sorry x

 

[oliveoyl]

Hugs oneday
You deserve a sorry, even if it was an 'innocent' mistake xx