SassyLou
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As some of you will have read we found out our baby had died on Thursday night, I was induced Sunday and gave birth to our wonderful baby (I was 17 weeks).
I think we've been coping ok until today. I thought my breasts felt strange and then realised I've got milk starting to come. I really can't believe it why didn't they tell me this might happen, it never crossed my mind that it would happen at this stage of pregnancy. Breast feeding has always been very important to me, I fed my boys till they were turned a year old. I can't believe I have milk and no baby to feed.
Then to top it all I'd just stopped crying when my mother phoned, and yet again she was horrible, I truly think she believes that I deserve everything I'm going through as I was stupid enough (her words) to get pregnant again. When I told her Thursday afternoon that the midwife couldn't find a heartbeat or any placenta sounds and that it really didn't look good her first words were 'I hope you're not going to put yourself through this again', then she started crying and told me 'I'm not crying for the baby, I never wanted you to have it, I'm crying for what you'll have to go through'. She's said such horrible things, I daren't write most of them on here as I'm sure I'll upset people.
Sorry for the moan I just feel so shit.
*added a bit more post 3*
I think we've been coping ok until today. I thought my breasts felt strange and then realised I've got milk starting to come. I really can't believe it why didn't they tell me this might happen, it never crossed my mind that it would happen at this stage of pregnancy. Breast feeding has always been very important to me, I fed my boys till they were turned a year old. I can't believe I have milk and no baby to feed.
Then to top it all I'd just stopped crying when my mother phoned, and yet again she was horrible, I truly think she believes that I deserve everything I'm going through as I was stupid enough (her words) to get pregnant again. When I told her Thursday afternoon that the midwife couldn't find a heartbeat or any placenta sounds and that it really didn't look good her first words were 'I hope you're not going to put yourself through this again', then she started crying and told me 'I'm not crying for the baby, I never wanted you to have it, I'm crying for what you'll have to go through'. She's said such horrible things, I daren't write most of them on here as I'm sure I'll upset people.
Sorry for the moan I just feel so shit.
*added a bit more post 3*